2006-07-07 17:55:41 · 19 answers · asked by dsgc05™ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No.
You can feel badly for what you have done.
You can feel rotten that it messed stuff up.
But you DON'T need to "feel sorry" for yourself.
Get off your keester and attempt to make things right again.
You can either 'fix' the problem or know that you tried, and learn from it (either way)...........
Feeling sorry for yourself just makes another problem!!
(good luck)
2006-07-07 18:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not okay to feel sorry for yourself. Do some soul searching. Ask yourself why this happened, how you could have prevented it from happening. How you might remedy the problem. When we just sit and feel sorry for ourselves we never get any where in life. It's like were just stuck in the mud and won't ever be able to pull ourselves out. Sometimes, this type of behavior can also make us depressed. Deal with your problem ASAP and be happy!
2006-07-08 01:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by lfahrne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! What good will that do? Just move on to the next thing.You have messed up before and will again,period. We all do/ How we deal with this kind of stuff is what makes us or breaks us. Dont worry.
2006-07-08 00:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Badmamajama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it means a lot, yes. No one is perfect. Hey, you made a mistake. Go ahead, and fix it- if you can. If you need help in fixing it, ask the question. I'm sure the others and I can give a bit of help.
2006-07-08 01:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, for like a day or two. but get over it and try not to let it happen again. feeling sorry for yourself won't change what was messed up, just will drive you crazy.
2006-07-08 00:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is but maybe if you talk about the problem everything will be ok.its ok to feel sorry for self just don't go over board
2006-07-08 13:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe.. but wouldn't the time be spent better on thinking of how you can maybe fix it? And if you can't fix it what can you do next time to not let it get screwed up again?
2006-07-08 00:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by mydragonmoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even accidents wind up happening for a reason, don't worry too much... forgive yourself.
try to honestly repair the damage if you can, or to grieve for what has been lost, all that is healthy but to move on is absolutely necessary.
2006-07-08 01:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah there is a certain amount of self pity that is healthy but you have to drag yourself out of it within 1 1/2 weeks otherwise you risk losing yourself!
2006-07-08 00:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course,just try not to dwell on it. Think about what went wrong,then try to fix it.I hope it all works out for you :)
2006-07-08 03:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by cc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋