There is no pain involved, just discomfort. Plus, I don't feel anything through sexual intercourse. I jokingly could file my nails or polish them while he's pumping away. I get no satisfaction through penitration alone. I know that stimulating with your free hands during intercourse helps a woman. However, I'm just talking about the sex itself. Are there any other women who feel discomfort EVERY TIME you have sex with your man? Thanks for those who answer...
2006-07-07 17:48:29 · 15 answers · asked by sugarbear 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
go to a doctor, you might have a growth or swelling inside or it really could be your bladder that makes you feel discomfort. most women get some pleasure from penetration though the majority of female pleasure comes from clitoral stimulation. There are tons of websites on the medical side of sex and you should go looking for them.
2006-07-07 17:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A few more details would be helpful. Based on your comment, it sounds like your lying on your back, while he is "pumping away". Try being on top. That way you have more control over the pace and the stimulation, plus maybe you can actual breathe or not feel like you are having your colon rearranged.
Regardless, no position works every time, variation during sex can help you keep trying to you find the perfect spot for that time. If you are still uncomfortable, go see a gynocoligist. In fact you should get a check up once a year even if you aren't sexually active.
2006-07-07 17:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by soulrider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of discomfort do you mean? Physical, emotional? I also get no satisfaction from penetration. I have read that women NEED clitoral stimulation in order to reach orgasm (luckily for many, this is achieved through friction during penetration), but for me I not only need direct stimulation, but it has to be the right pressure and rhythm. Also, I have to be in the right frame of mind and feel truly comfortable with the person before I can relax and focus enough to reach orgasm. Perhaps your discomfort comes from not being completely open with your partner about your wants, desires, and feelings, thus you cannot find comfort or pleasure from him. I would suggest opening up to him and feeling comfortable with yourself that you are not abnormal.
2006-07-07 18:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by miamelissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u should have alonger foreplay to make u relax before having sex
2006-07-07 17:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by mate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stimulating the clitoris is a part of sex which your man should understand.
2006-07-07 17:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time let him lie there and you get on with what is comfortable. trust me as long as he's getting some action he'll be happy but experiment and find out what you like and then tell him what to do. trust me he'll listen.
2006-07-07 17:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 possibility
1-he doesnt know how to f u c k
2-there is something wrong with ur hormones or physchological issues..
2006-07-07 18:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by terrament 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy. but i think you should try something new. try some new positions. or maybe he's not big enopugh for you anymore. no offense if that offends you.
2006-07-07 17:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy I can only say, oops!
2006-07-07 17:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by :Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either wrong guy or try a woman
2006-07-07 17:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by twostackmac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋