As a opinon. In a case that you were locked up longer than a year and you aren't attracted to the same sex. As if you were a male in a all male facility and not attracted to males and a female in a all female facility and not attracted to females would you have sex with a guard that is your opposite sex? We all know how wrong it is but if you ain't getting that pleasure and was offered sex by a guard would you accept it? If it went wrong, but you feel you still need the physical contact and know that you don't want any contact with your same sex would you continue this sex relationship? What points and what extent would you take this type of relationship to?
2006-07-07 17:28:42 · 6 answers · asked by Rochelle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When you answer these questions please tell why and explain.
2006-07-07 17:30:21 · update #1
I read some answers so far and before I make a decision I just want to let some of you know that I'm not disrespecting myself because I'm not in this situation. This is a funny conversation that my friend and I came up with to help another friend that is in need of some humor since she's going through some problems. Particularly in a similiar case like this. But I thank you so far those of you that have answered.
2006-07-19 12:05:42 · update #2
It was not identical circumstances but in a similar situation I did it and enjoyed it.
2006-07-07 17:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by shakira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off you are in a tough situation . But, you aren't "special" to the guard He/She will offer sex to anyone willing to take it. It's a matter of "pride" -if you are just looking for sexual outlet then go for the sleaze bag who will treat you like a faceless and mindless person-and more than likely use manipulation. If you aren't interested in you own sex then set your limits. But, the worse choice is having sex with a guard whose not only job is to protect-but maintain your integrity. Any guard who would use their position to solicit sex has got a problem. Live with it-it's a year-you don't have to fall into the same sex nor do you need a manipulator for their own gratification. Think about it....
Or have some self-respect and accept abstinence until you can do better than just taking what is handy. Find a better outlet-like a book or .something.-ask someone to get you vibrator. Anything than giving into a guard that is using their position to get free sex.
2006-07-07 17:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by GWENNETH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex in prison isn't about attraction. If you aren't the biggest and strongest, you will be someone's b*tch, whether you want it or not. Male and female lock ups are pretty much the same. No choice. Sex with a guard might offer protection, or it might not.
I say lift weights, watch yourself, and use your fingers/hands. All you got is you.
2006-07-07 18:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a hobby - you seriously sit around and think of this stuff?!?!?
Get a life.
No offense - but what do I know, I'm just an evil conservative Hate Monger.
2006-07-07 17:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by Yogi! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't because the power of masturbation would keep those urges at bay for me at least
2006-07-07 17:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by carneypwr2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it, everyone needs some lovin'.
2006-07-07 17:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋