I have never seen chinese men and white women together anywhere. Is it just not very chinese men in USA or they are not attracted to white women?
2006-07-07 17:27:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Chinese guys are attracted to all races like any other men. Many may not date white women because they may be culturally xenophobic (which of course is very sad). Or may have perceptions that white women do not make a good girlfriends/wives as Chinese girls i.e not as sub servant etc (again stupid). I'm originally from Hong Kong and some of my friends are like that. BUT they are definitely attracted to white women. I've dated many white women and find that they are as nice and sensitive as Asian women. In fact I ended up marrying one.
2006-07-12 18:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by kkwongusc 2 · 11⤊ 0⤋
Where do you live,..
Deep in the woods?
High in the mountains?
Right off the bat I have to say there are absolutely no rules of attraction.
Let's call that (1)
That'll make this (2)
Visit any major city or university. Granted in some areas mix couples of any and all races may still draw criticism but that doesn't change the fact that they exist.
2006-07-07 17:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by thomnjo2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
And how many blacks and whites do you see together?
Middle Eastern and Korean?
Latinos and Eskimos?
Native American Indians and Indians?
People can be attracted to anyone of any races and it's utterly ridiculous of you to think that Chinese men are exempt. However, society and families press people of a similar culture together. If you are black you should date a black girl, Korean with a Korean (or someone else from Asia), etc. It starts out at school.
No matter how diverse you think your school is, most boys stand with boys and girls with girls. Most boys and girls that are white are together, most boys and girls that are black are together, etc. It becomes ingrained in the mind and they just spot their own "kind" more than anyone else; they feel there is less of a chance of rejection going with someone that has the same cultural identity as their own.
It's not that they're never, ever attracted to another white woman, but first you have to approach them and ask to date. How many of them do you honestly think to themselves, "I wish [guy's name] would date me, I love Chinese men and I'm sure none of my friends and family would secretly give me looks about it because this is America and everyone is completely and totally ignorant of discrimination"?
Not many, let me tell you that. It takes a hell of a lot of courage and luck, and would just be a lot easier with a lot less heartache to go after someone who's in the same position as yourself.
2006-07-07 17:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by Belie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure where the Chinese bit comes into it. Although research shows that many people choose partners that look broadly similar to them, people are attracted to each other whatever their race. A sexy girl is a sexy girl in any language.
2016-03-15 21:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never seen a Chinese guy with a white woman either! I guess it's just not common. Although, when I was single I did date a Japanese guy for a little bit - but he was WAY tall - like 6'2"!
2006-07-07 17:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy! im sure there are tons of chinese guys attracted to white women, interracial relationships happen all the time. there may be some who arent, but probably the majority are. i have personally seen chinese guys with white women before.
2006-07-07 17:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by lil_lemon_honey 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I have seen one. A friend of mine is a Chinese and he married a white woman.
2006-07-07 17:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by hotman_hotdude 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I am a Chinese man and my wife is a white woman. It is true that it does not happen too often though.
2006-07-08 01:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by knitting guy 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋
i'm a chinese. my cousin, also a chinese has been happily dating a macedonian woman (white) for about 8 years now.
have no idea why they're not married. he's a commitment-phob, i think
2006-07-12 18:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by grape_black 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Where I live in Boston you see them in couples everywhere,Chinese men and white women.
2006-07-07 17:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 0⤋