Why are women so loyal to their men, and men always want to look around for women even if they are married?

Answer 1

Well, have you seen “Eyes Wide Shut”? If not I recommend it (if you’re 18 +, no illegalities please, it may give you some insight when Nicole Kidman tell Tom Cruse that she would have given up everything she had with him for even just one night with a marine when they visited cape cod.) I think it is nature for people to “look around.” I’m a happily married woman. I am as sure as anyone in a committed relationship can be that he’s as happy as I am. But everyone has wondering eyes. I’ll catch me husband looking at another girl sometimes. I’m not threatened by it; if I thinks she pretty I’ll say some thing like “She’s cute,” or “yeah, she’s good enough for Pat.” (Pat is one of my single friends that has had crappy luck with girls.) He has been very jealous in the past (with no provocation) and has begun to realize that, while I love Jonny Depp, and some times a guy will catch my eye, I’ve chosen him, if I didn’t want to be with him, I wouldn’t be with him. Whether or not you’re married, you have to trust your partner to be honest with you. If they want out of the relationship because they have “urges too strong to control” then it may be for the best. Do you really want to have that around you? What if they admit the cheated on you and they’re “in love” with the other person?
It’s not a Male thing to look for something "better" or "different", it’s human. Looking is not the same thing as doing.
If you are the one with the wondering eye, let me ask you this. Is the fascination, the longing for this other person worth more to you than what you already have?

This is a question only you can answer. Everyone has their own beliefs as to what they will be able to live with when everything is said and done.

Answer 2

1. Some minutes of Love from a man, woman bears for months. So the effect is lasting, the fruit is too sweet having a kid. So in most of the cases, the women remain loyal to their hubbies.

2. Financial control is in most of the cases in the control of the men, so they never feel any obligation and so flurts as soon as they get a chance (Not all men).

3 Its the nature that has created men and women that way. Women may get Pregnent in the process of being unfaithful but men can do and wash off, no aftereffect.

So thus flows the wish and we act accordingly.

Answer 3

Women are not loyal to men like you think they are. Not every man cheats, and not every woman cheats either. I will say this though, some women and men do have thoughts of other people even if they never act on it. Women are actually getting worse than the men these days as far as cheating while thier married. You will be very surprised to know how many women are cheating on their husbands.

Answer 4

Its not just men that "look around". Its people in general. I know more women that have cheated on there spouse, then men. Men and women both, will strive for something better. I mean if you had the best, and knew you had it, what more would there be for you? Things would be very boring knowing that you have had the best there was, and nothing is going to get better. To look at other people when your in a relationship is normal, To think there hot is normal. Its when you take the looking and turn it into touching and feeling that things get messed up. I mean define cheating, Is it just the act of sex? or could it be spending quality time with someone else, when you should be spending it with the one you love. So in fact when the girls go out for a night on the town, that could be percieved as cheating. Being faithfull in a relationship, should be wanting to be with the person or persons, you love, accepting them for who they want to be and not complaining when they look at another person. People need to step outside societys norm and view the whole picture, of what it means to be in love, Acceptance of all the "pet peeves" your mate has would be the first thing people should look for, someone who will love you for you, no matter what you enjoy doing. Being the person you want to be, without haveing someone tell you what you can and can't do. Acceptance and commitment for your mate. I mean if you think you love someone and they have a annoying habit, that they do all the time, you eather should find another love, or accept them for who they are.

Answer 5

Not all women are loyal, and not all men are either.
In today's world we are always looking for something better than what we have. It seems as if we are never content just to be thankful. I think this is part of the reason people are always "looking around" I think there are a lot of different reasons to why people do this. They aren't happy with the person they are with, they wonder what it would be like to be with someone else. Some of this is also cause by people just settling for someone just because they don't want to be alone.
I think in order for you to be truly happy with another person, they have to have something about them that you can't find in just anyone. Something that makes YOU happy to be with them and them with you.

Answer 6

First of all not all men/women follow this stereotype, some just hide it better than others. Anyway, the key to your question is that men are visual creatures. They are usually more visually stimulated than women. This is just how they are made. Just because one looks does not mean he is looking for another women. Talk to him tell him it bothers you that he oggles other women and you notice. If he really cares he will keep himself in check at least when you are around. Tip: Don't expect him to change overnight, it could take a lot of reminding on your part.

Answer 7

Your question is based on a false premise that you probably created due to a personal circumstance. Look around, there would be anarchy if your statement were completely true. Stereotypes do not cover every situation in life.

Answer 8

Come on. You seriously think women don't look at other guys? It may just be my parents, who love each other like crazy, but my dad never, or would never think of, being with another woman. Men just may be more open about it. But I definitely disagree with that statement.

Answer 9

Perhaps it's just the testosterone in men that cause these things... it also makes men more rash and sorta violent at times? and perhaps women's oestrogen also makes then less ... how do you put it... more contented than men... you can read up about these things on the net though...
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Answer 10

Well women's felings could get stuck on just one guy because theay are pretty much sure of themself and like to please their rightful men (husband), while mens in the other hand jus t look for more than he could shew and really don't sit to analyse what they got