I do not believe that you can be born and decide that you were meant to be with the same sex. God made men and women. no just men for men and women for women. or even bisexuals. if you think about it when sex is at hand. women need something within them and men need to be within something if you get my drift.so please answer my question.
2006-07-07 16:44:29 · 19 answers · asked by Brittany S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No no no. Women do NOT Need something inside them. Unlike men we can orgasm in other ways than just penetration. Stop thinking with your crotch, my child, and leave God out of this. This is a human condition, not a Divine one.
2006-07-07 18:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is, we're hardly in a population crisis, so the production of offspring to continue the species is just not an issue anymore. It's not even an issue to keep the tribe of Israel going anymore, much less the whole human species. Around the time that you KNEW for a fact you were straight, because you starting to notice boys, I KNEW for a fact I was gay, because I also started to notice boys. Think about how life would be for you if everyone was telling you that was wrong; you should change; you should be with girls. It's just not right for you, and you know that. Also, not all women "need something within them"; a very small percentage is capable of reaching orgasm through penetration alone. And as for men needing something to be within, we have several options open to us.
2006-07-08 18:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would be because they are sexually attracted to the same sex for whatever reason. Even if you believe in a God, god, Goddess, goddess or a flying spaghetti monster, there are naturally occurring genetic and behavioral deviations from the perceived norm. Look at other genetic deviations....blonds brunettes, redheads, black skin, pink skin, brown skin, cancer, Downs Syndrome etc. Our genetic makeup is incredibly complicated and mostly a mystery to us.
Do not read the above to say that I believe that homo/bisexuality is a genetic flaw. I don't know and people a lot smarter than I am don't know either. What I do know is they generally speaking don't hurt anyone else by their choices. Even if you believe that it is wrong religiously or morally, they will be the ones going to hell not yourself, let them be. Heck let them get married too, they have the right to be just as miserable as the rest of us.
Do not read the above to say that I think they are going to hell. I'm agnostic (and hetero), I don't have the answers and I doubt that there is a hell if there is a just and loving God. I wouldn't send my kid to stand in the corner for all of eternity no matter how badly they behaved (though a good spanking might be called for) but all of that's for another post.
Judge not lest ye be judged........
2006-07-07 17:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by r_ulost2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't figure it, they are born that way. Yes there are men and women. The majority of those men and women date and marry each other. They were created to reproduce. Does every person on earth need to reproduce to keep the species alive? Of course not! Straight people are doing enough for the population and some gay people are reproducing as well. Being attracted to your same gender does not make you obsolete. It is not unnatural as you say. It is simply the way some people are. You only think the way you do because most of society does and because you haven't gotten to know any gay people. Try it and maybe you'll realize that you are being prejudiced.
2006-07-07 20:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe that you can be born and decide that you were meant to be left-handed.
The Right hand of God is the power-place to be. It even says it in the name... it's Right. Even the classical Romans knew people were supposed to be right-handed because they named the left side "sinister" and the French know it's "gauche" to be left-handed.
There has been a lot of money spent trying to prove that there is a genetic cause for left-handedness, but none has ever been proven. When will left-handed people simply admit that they chose to be that way?
The world is made for right-handed people and those lefties just need to conform and use their right hands!
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Okay, so men have orifices that something can go in and women have tongues... if you get my drift. There are men for men and men for women and women for men and women for women and each for any and that's how the world is. You don't have to understand it -- I don't understand it, I just accept it.
2006-07-07 17:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by blueowlboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I don't know if I am right or wrong but what I think its about who you love and what feel right to you. Being gay or lesbian is not about sex. It's about who you are able to make the connection with and as my girl had said to me who you feel that you are build for.
Now about the man needs to within something, a man can be within another man and a woman can be within another woman.
About God made us for a man and woman well god also made me and I just cant see my self ever being with a man.
People are be born gay also people are born to for in love with other people NOT with body parts (you get me).
2006-07-07 17:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by t_d_r_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand that being gay isn't something you choose. You don't just wake up one day and stop being attracted to the opposite sex.
Here's an answer I left for someone else who said that being gay is something you choose, hopefully it will help you to understand:
Were you born straight? Or were you born gay, yet chose to be straight?
People who aren't gay don't have the right to tell any gay person why they are gay - because they don't understand it.
I honestly don't mean for that to sound rude - but it's true. If haven't experienced something firsthand - you shouldn't speak as though you know everything about it.
They somehow believe that they chose to be straight.
It's hard for a lot of straight people to understand because they have never felt that way.
Think about this though: If being gay was right, and being straight was wrong - and society condemned you because you were straight - what would you do?
Would you force yourself to conform - despite how difficult and unnatural it felt to you? Or would you live the way that you felt was right, despite what others told you?
Think about it.
You also need to realize gay people have a very hard life - they can lose their job because of their orientation, they can lose their entire family, be kicked out of their home, lose all of their friends, they aren't allowed to marry the person they love, etc etc.
I honestly don't think someone would choose a life that hard, do you?
I've seen people come out of the closet and lose everything - a loving family simply turned their back and refused to speak to them, they lost their job, all of their friends - they were completely alone - they had nothing.
What about the people who struggle for years to come out of the closet? They are afraid to come out - literally afraid - so why would they choose to be afraid?
If you've ever seen the aftershock of someone attempting to live the straight life and getting married - you may have a different perspective on things.
Marriages crash and burn, children grow up in a broken home, the wife/husband who never knew is left heartbroken and alone.
You should never pass judgement on things you do not understand.
2006-07-07 17:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, the same way you figure you're straight. Why is this so hard to understand? When did you know that you liked the opposite sex? Probably around puberty, right? It is the EXACT same for gay people. The difference is that many gay people are so afraid of the mean straight people that they HIDE IT because they do not want to be treated like the crap you dish out to us every goddamn day.
2006-07-07 18:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by fracker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For procreation you need a man and a woman, yes. But for sexual activity alone, any combination of gender will suffice. And I would think that it would be very hard to find many people who argue that sex is ONLY for the purpose of procreation AND who actually lives by those convictions, (i.e. has only ever had sex with the aim of making a baby, has never masturbated etc).
And by the way, any gay person will confirm for you that they did not decide on or choose their sexuality, and that sex with their own gender is natural and right for them.
2006-07-07 17:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by moo71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If that were true why are so many People Gay. Its Been scientifically proven some People were Born with Opppsite chromsomes and Others have made the choice. Because God gave us freedom of choice
2006-07-07 17:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by pistolpete797@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋