Why are boys that are my age (14) are all for gettin some these days what happend to respect and waiting till your married? I mean i understand not all guys are like this but most of them where im from..
2006-07-07 16:29:17 · 13 answers · asked by Ally 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
probably most guys are like that. what happend to gentlemen? well they are still here but we all have a double standard. we want a women to be a virgin but it's better if we aren't. i guess one of us has to have experience right?
2006-07-07 16:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what happened is that we shifted the age of adulthood up during the last couple of centuries. Back in 1800, it was not unusual for boys of 15 or 16 to marry. Girls could marry as young as 12 (even though they usually did not reach sexual maturity before age 15). You can still see these ages in the laws of many states.
Instead, children now have such good nutrition (and maybe exposure to industrial chemicals that act as synthetic female hormones) that girls are maturing at 10 or 11. The result of both these trends is that we have created a "teen period" during which young people have sexually mature bodies, but none of the outlets for that sexuality that were available in the past.
So the boys are always on the prowl, and in some US cities 18% of the girls reported they began having sex before they were 13!
2006-07-08 00:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by pondering_it_all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a agree except for the getting married part...i think that it is ok to have sex only when you and your partiner are responsable and stable enough to handle what might happen, and if you are in love. i am 15 and i look at boys my age and see what your talking about...what happened to guys holding doors for girls out of respect and not just so they can look at her @$$ as she walks by? what happened to the manners around your elders, around elders when you burp you are susposto say excues me, parden me, etc., i mean honestly if you want to be treated like an adult you must at least act like a civilized adult first...and whats up with the kids who are being raised to hate other sexes, and i know that you were talking about having enough respect for the girl to wait until after you are ready to have sex but i had to get that off my chest, and i know im a guy but i have been raised right, i hold the door open, ladies first, never hit a girl, be ready always but only make a move when she is ready, and love only works when your heart is into it 100%
2006-07-07 23:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by popeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they see so much sex and stuff on the tv and it's "in". Yes, some of them may be talk, but there are some that are wanting it. That's what happened when good morals are dumped. If they promoted no sex til marriage, they would be thinking a little more that way. Hope this helps!
2006-07-07 23:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree. i would say just find some really good guy friends and who knows, maybe u might end up liking one of them one day. and, if u do, it will b much better than if u just have a crush on some random guy. thats what happend 2 me, i was friends with this guy and then one day i realized that i didn't see him the same way anymore. i know he doesn't like me, but i still like him. and if he ever does like me, i think it would b a better relationship than if we we were not friends 2 begin with. good luck.
2006-07-07 23:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by annonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reson boys your age are all about gettin some is becuz there hormons are very high
2006-07-08 00:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by Dr.Culpepper/Zac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guys that age are dumb perverted dumbass that only think about sex anyway. they dont know the real meaning of love yet, or respect. they just think a girl is something to feel and rub on, and have sex with then run around the school telling everyone. i should know im one year younger then you. see how fast us girls mature? your just lucky god didnt make us dumb and make boys smart.
2006-07-08 03:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Echo♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sex has been made to be the "in" thing to do, despite the consequences. most people seek it for instant pleasure. not thinking about later problems, like pregnancy, catching an std, etc. and boys our age want to do it because they are turning back into neaderthals pigs.
2006-07-07 23:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by mizz_understood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just love how the females on this board are full of stereotypes, yet flip out if we stereotype them.
"like teh lol boyz r so stoopid!"
"ya i kno, all they watn is secks"
"You know girls, you all seem to be incredibly stupid and horny yourselves, maybe you should stop acting like you're in 3rd grade and stop stereotyping"
"OMG U DON"T KNOME DONT TELL ME WUT IM LIK!"
******* idiots.
EDIT: tasha_sixx is the perfect example of what I'm talking about.
2006-07-07 23:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by Pokerized 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 14 .. most of these boys are all talk. yea they want it if there healthy but have they actually done it.. probably not
2006-07-07 23:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋