He says he doesn't want another mans dick that close to his cause we were gonna do double penatration and that he doesn't wanna share me but he's willin to invite a girl but I dont want a girl cause I'm not into girls and I dont even wont her to be near me. What can I do to change his mind and make him ok with another dude being there
2006-07-07 16:28:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Introducing a relationship to poligamy is frought with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundemental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.
2006-07-09 01:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It seems that neither of you want to have the same sex there. If you are so wanting DP, I would make a compromise. You allow him to bring a woman in to a threesome and he allows you to bring in a guy. You do not have to be into girls to do a threesome, he can split the time between the two of you. Just remember in life, we all have to make compromises to get what we want at times.
2006-07-08 10:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are wierd about other guys. Those are the types that you can never convince to join you in any group play sessions. It is sad but true.
On the plus side - there are a lot of guys who are completly comfortable filling you from both ends with a few of their buddies.
And I DO recomend it. They are like potato chips - no one can have just one.
2006-07-08 00:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by ***** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i answer your other question and now i know why your man dont' want to sleep with you. any man that wants or need another man's help screwing a girl is not a man and must like to "see" other men naked lol and girls that like it most are streched out so much they need 5 or 6 in them at once anyway so you have problem and sadly it 's your own fault. if i was him i would have dropped you off at a whore houses along time ago
2006-07-08 08:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by SLICK77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind a threesome with two girls, or a girl and a guy.
But, with two guys? No way. I like one boy at a time. By-the-
way......xxxxxxoooo Josh!
2006-07-08 07:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't going to change his mind. There isn't anything more threatening to a guy than the thought of another guy satisfying his woman better than he can.
2006-07-07 23:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him honey. If he can't trust him, then you can't trust him. Hey you know the saying - "If you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen." There are tons of other delicious men out there willing to share your gorgeous self. Go get two sugar. =) Much Love, x0x J0SHUA x0x
2006-07-07 23:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I DONNO, IT SEEMS HE WANNA STATISFY HISELF BY SAYIN HE WANTS A GURL
BUT HEY U DON'T NEED NO THREESOME.....
U GUYS GAT EACH OTHER, KEEP ON AVIN SEX WITHOUT NO THREESOME
OR JUS TRY TELLIN HIM U WABT A DUDE N IF HE STILLS SAYS NO
THEN JUS TELL HIM U AINT WANT NO THREESOME, IT AINT WORTH IT
IF U GUYS RILI CARE ABT YA RELA... U GUYS WONT CONSIDER AVIN A THREESOME
2006-07-08 00:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by leslie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he feels about another guy the same way you feel about another girl. You must understand him. Why don't you do a foursome then? (one extra guy AND girl)
2006-07-07 23:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kaytee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. this can cause alot of confusion and can maybe end the relationship. you both need to only have sex with each other and that's it.
2006-07-07 23:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by cmac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋