Body has its need and has its own mind. Sex is very important for a happy relationship, and both the partners have to realise that. Not only for the man, for the woman in relationship too. If marriage is all about sharing caring loving understanding then the partner has to understand his/her partners need for sex too. Nd if sex is not that important / not everything, then why make such a fuss over sex with someone else if he is true to in his feelings for her, if he loves her and is ready to take care of her.
If you dont let your sexual energies out of you, it will spoil the marriage also.
But I strongly recommend you seek a counsellor not for you, but for your wife. Darling speak to her.... Tell her how u feel. Nd by the way what are these fetishes she is having... Cant you include it in your sex foreplay... be creative with her......You may not have to look for sex at other places.
And baby about the ways to cheat...... (I hope it never comes to that) I wont tell you here.... mail me and i'll let you know
2006-07-07 17:39:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Your an a$$
If you really love your wife then you need to ask her why she is having these fetishes. Is this something new to her??? Ask her what is making her think this is fun? A better way (maybe not as fun) to go about your sexual frustrations is by useing Jack and his four friends..... But please do not cheat on your wife... talk to her. Communication, that is what a good relationship is based on!
2006-07-07 16:32:34
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answered by Anonymous
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U can't cheat on her safe and clean. If u are having problems with her fetishes talk to her about it. Dont think about cheating if u can be a man and talk about it. Ur runing from something that can easly be fix just by words. Just talk to her
2006-07-07 18:56:41
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answered by Anonymous
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you shouldnt cheat on your wife, its just gonna make it worse. If you really love her..dont cheat on her! Just sit both of you down and have a discussion on how you feel about her fetishes. Hopefully you two will work out your problem, good luck!
2006-07-07 16:37:17
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answered by ? 4
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Doesn't matter what kind of fetishes your wife has ... you shouldn't be thinking of cheating ... if you don't love her anymore and can't deal with what she is doing ... end your marriage first and then find someone new.
I beg you to talk to her if you love her ... tell her how you feel and she might look at things differently. You owe it to yourself and to her.
Good luck
2006-07-07 16:29:41
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answered by J 3
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Are you willing to lose your wife. Why dont you sit and talk to her, without thinking about cheating on her.
Your marriage must mean something to you, you claim that you love her so prove it!
2006-07-07 16:29:06
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answered by misscanada_y2k 3
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Apparently you don't love her if you want to cheat on her. Love is not wanting to hurt the one you love, and cheating would hurt her. I would recommend some couples counseling, that is if you want to work it out with her.
2006-07-07 16:31:21
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answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6
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well its another self centered jerk with his brains in his balls. Go find you a whore, screw her brains out, catch a nasty disease and watch your wife leave your pathetic sorry a--!!! I hope your pecker turns green, itches all the time, and falls off!
2006-07-07 16:30:57
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answered by Anonymous
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you're pathetic!!! Apparently, you're wife's physical attributes is all that you care about. If you don't love her mind, body, and soul why in the hell did you marry her????
2006-07-07 16:36:56
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answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6
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you need counciling.... you shouldnt cheat just because youre having sex life problems......... sit down and talk to her
2006-07-08 07:52:51
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answered by Anonymous
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