i just feel it disgusting....i once even tried it bt could not ...i don't feel like having meals for days after that...its affecting our relation..please help
2006-07-07 16:07:36 · 8 answers · asked by xyz_111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hm mm,
don't do what makes you uncomfortable. does your husband pleasure you in that way? sometimes all it takes is being able to relate to the situation. i would relate it to him in a way he could understand.
go and buy an eclair. put it in the fridge. when you see him tell him you want him to try something. get the eclair and FORCE IT INTO HIS MOUTH, when he protests just tell him it will be OK. RAM IT IN HIS MOUTH over and over again. finally squeeze out all of the filling and say "thanks baby you were great".
it sounds like he is a young guy who needs the brakes put on in a straightforward sort of way. older guys talk to younger ones better than young wives talk to young husbands.
2006-07-07 16:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by thom 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 9 years and I don't like or engage in oral sex because I am not comfortable with it, although my husband would like me too. Talk to your husband and tell him how you feel and if he TRULY loves you he won't continue to ask you to something that causes you that much stress. If his response is negative PRAY for him that he will be more considerate of you and your feelings. In marriage we must all learn to compromise some things and true love dictates that he will let that go if you're not comfortable with it.
2006-07-07 16:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by 2deep4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will fix this problem. In my opinion, it takes years for a married couple to find a sexual rhythm that works for them mutually.
2006-07-07 16:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truely loves you, he will NEVER make you do anything that you don't want to do. If he's forceful, that's called "marital rape." It sounds like the two of you need counseling.....or a good divorce lawyer!!
2006-07-07 16:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
occasionally a man wants to feel a certain pleasure and u should give it to him ever once in a while if you don't like. do u like it when he does it to u
2006-07-07 16:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
really if that's how you feel dint do it!!! the more power too you...if hes going to be a ******* baby about it...or hate you for it hes not worth any of your time
2006-07-07 16:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by *** Y 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
draw a line and say no!! it's your body. and take everything you've ever earned, everything you own. and sell it! WHAT'S LEFT!!!! you...... you matter more than a sex act. wake-up.
2006-07-07 16:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by dennpow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it anyway Just not very often.
2006-07-07 16:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋