ok... well me and my cousin are the same age, and he's rely kool, and we're really close... well..... i dunno if this is wrong or not, but he's really really hot, and sometimes wen we hang out, i get really horny... i dnt think i like him like that, but i do like him as a play mate.. . is this wrong?? i dont know wat to do....
2006-07-07 16:00:53 · 32 answers · asked by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he is my second cousin by the way
2006-07-07 16:04:43 · update #1
it seems awkward to me.........but thats just because all my family members are as irritating as EVER!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-07 16:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know a couple of people who have had feelings for certain family members. I do think that it's wrong. Whether it's brother, sister, father, mother, cousin.. at the end of the day, they're family.
Accept the fact that he is family, and attempt to move on from that. It is probably unlikely that he feels the same, since most normal individuals think that incest is rather disgusting.
Don't make a move, or hint it, or even flirt.
It's not healthy.
2006-07-07 16:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by Medicated Harmony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage between first cousins are permitted in more than half the states and pretty much around the world the bible does no state cousins as incest so you will hear from alot of hippocrites with nothin to back up what they say.
2006-07-07 16:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by djmantx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...is this your first cousin? If not there is no law that says it's a no-no. But the problem maybe your families, it could make them all very uncomfortable. It would probably be better for everyone if you found someone else to have these feelings about. If it happens with one boy it'll happen with others.
2006-07-07 16:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I read that cousins are just far enough apart of a relation to marry legally, but that doesn't make it any less taboo in my opinion. Which is probably why it turns you on so much! Man, you just can't do your cousin, it's just not right.
2006-07-07 16:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a touchy one eh,but ya,it is considered wrong or immoral to think of yer cousins sexualy involved with each other are bound to end up hurt,so ,stay away from fire and you wont get burnt ,have a good day eh!PEACE!~~
2006-07-07 16:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by joeniceguy2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i dont think that attraction is something you can controll. so i dont think that anything is wrong with you,but your actions you can controll so dont go there. no point its nothing that can last and if you try a one time thing it will be akward at family get togethers. so admire your cousins looks but remember he is your cousin. ask him if he has any cute friends for you.
2006-07-07 16:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by jazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first place why do you like your cousin he has your blood.
And you were asking if that is wrong in a way yes it is wrong sorry but it's the truth and what you should do is stop liking him as a playmate and start liking him as a cousin.
2006-07-07 16:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad thing is that it is too normal. But most normal people don't act on it.
I don't like any of my family members because they are family.
2006-07-07 16:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DANG i dont eaither girl just find some won whos koller and cuter than him youll have to get over it
2006-07-07 16:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Chloee L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is wrong unless your in kentucky where that thing is legal, if he were your second cousin that would be alittle more normal but still wrong, just wrong
2006-07-07 16:02:50 · answer #11 · answered by Quasar1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋