I am 13 years old,and my boyfriend is 18 yearsold I have two children a 10 mth old son and a baby on the way.I am going threw alot right now but /i just wanted to ask this question because somebody told me that my kids should be taken away from meand I was woudering do you feel the same way.You probably already know that my boyfriend beats on me.
2006-07-07 15:59:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First of all your boyfriend should be in jail for having sex with a minor. second of all has noboby ever told you about the consequences of unprotected sex? Your 13. Get real.
It sounds like you should not be anywhere around him. Where on earth are your parents or guardians?
2006-07-07 16:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound judgemental, but didn't you see how hard it is being a young parent after you popped out the first kid?? That experience alone should have taught you to keep your legs closed. Why would you get pregnant 2 more times?? And the guy beats you, too?!
Where are your parents??
I hate to say it, but your kids probably would be better off in another environment. The sad thing is, they would most likely get split up in foster care. But there is no way you can take care of them, and you obviously don't have the capacity to make good decisions.
Stop having sex and get some help!!
2006-07-07 17:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by nacsilver85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about yourself and your children you will get away from your boyfriend forever! You and your children deserve better. As for if they should be taken away from you.....I guess I think that you should decide what is best for them. Are you a great parent? Do you put your children's needs before your own needs? Maybe they need a mature parent that can love and take care of them financially. At the very least, you owe it to your children to make sure you are all safe. Get yourself some help,go back to school and get some training so that you can support yourself and your children if you are to continue to care for them. Sometimes it is also better to show your love by doing what is best for THEM. This will be your decision. Please think of your children first and then yourself. You all deserve a childhood.
2006-07-14 12:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by Paula P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are joking, right!
If not and you are for real - then I sincerely feel sorry for those children. You must put them up for adoption so that they can have some chance of a normal life. If not the liklihood is that growing up in a dysfunctional environment such as yours will only end in misery for them. By the way there is this thing called abstinance and if that fails, contraception!
2006-07-07 16:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. You are 13 and have 2 kids??
Yes, they should be taken away and you put away somewhere safe where you can get an education and out of this rut. What do your parents say?? Is your boyfriend working, or is this yet another family my tax dollars supports??
2006-07-07 16:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by Collette B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not stunned that her little ones were taken away, yet i do not imagine Kevin must have custody of them. i imagine Britney desires to get herself some help so as that she will be there for her little ones. Having her little ones taken faraway from her must be heartbreaking for her and that i'm hoping this may open up her eyes to her situation. I agree that Kevin is in simple terms residing off Britney and that is unhappy that he receives the boys. i imagine that they both favor to get their lives straighten out and favor to concentration on elevating their little ones, divorced or not.
2016-10-14 05:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is a 13 year old doing having sex? Girlfriend, you are a little girl yourself and have no business having kids. Keep your legs closed and do right by your poor little kids, they didn't ask to be brought into this world by someone who can't hardly take care of herself. Leave the stupid loser guy you are with. Chances are, he can be thrown in jail for having sex with a minor. I would suggest looking into that.
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2006-07-07 16:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please seek advice from a trusted adult . Abuse should not be tolerated . Think of your children first . Get out of this relationship before you get hurt really bad , or even killed . Look up a battered womens hotline in your phone book . I hope you will know PEACE soon . If you don't think of your children then you should let someone take care of them that will . It's A LOT of responsibility to be a GOOD parent .
2006-07-07 16:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 and two kids, and your oldest isn't even a year old yet? that's not right, and your b/f probably isn't both's daddy is he? and what state do you live in because in my state a 13year old and 18 year old is illegal. And why would you want to put your kids in an abusive environment? are you that selfish?
2006-07-08 13:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by mommy to 3 blessings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After your next child is born, put them up for adoption. Children shoulden't grow up in an abusive environment. Then break up with your bf. Do your mom and dad know that he beats you ? If not, tell them! They need to know so they can help you.
2006-07-07 16:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋