I have been fustrated lately in this marriage and have done some things that i regret. like slash my husband back tire, put pins in his shoes all because he mistreated me and now he wants a divorce
2006-07-07 15:40:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can ask him if he'd do couples counseling with you but don't be surprised if he says no. Acting out in such a destructive manner is pretty much asking for trouble.
If not, at least get some counseling of your own so you can figure out why you did such stupid stuff and maybe you'll do better next time.
2006-07-07 15:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like something I would have done years ago. Ask him if he will agree to go to marriage counseling together. If he says no immediately, why not you try to go first and once he sees you are willing to try and work it out, he may decide to go with you. I have been frustrated many times, mostly i ignored it, and other times i left for a few weeks.
2006-07-07 22:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,
You need to seek counseling for your anger management issues. You need to work on you first and then see if he is still willing to work the situation out with you. Never have a tit for tat attitude in your marriage. Marriage is always about commitment and compromise. You need to sincerely apologize to him and also let him know that you recognize that you have some anger issues and are willing to work on change.
2006-07-07 23:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by 2deep4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two are not meet for each other it hard to say even if you love him but you need to be apart you could also talk about the thinks that you have done to each other talking is the best way to get through things even if you do not agree with what he says you need to agree so he thinks you are listening and he needs to take the time to listen to you too
2006-07-07 22:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by nicks girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well guys u r married u shudn't be playin like kids of 2nd standard........its a marriage respect it and handle it carefully think bout it talk bout it wid ur husband or a counseller................just dont disrespect it
2006-07-07 22:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ar u expecting girl? that´s what u were looking for, why would some woman put pins in her husban shoes? that´s crazy......
P.S.tell him that you ar sorry and that you love him!
2006-07-07 22:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by ¨¨starlight¨¨¨ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he miss treats you shame on him the first time and shame on you the second time.
words for a child whose mom was beaten often
2006-07-07 22:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, maybe you should have stated this in your other posts. you really need counseling.
i don't know what he did but he must have been acting out for you to do bad things to him, i hope.
2006-07-07 22:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by thom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋