i have a boyfriend
i got to know this girl who i really enjoy being with i find we have alot of similar interests click very well..
i have always had problem not about being les or bi or watever..but trying to suppress the feelings..i know the general advise is to accept n come out of the closet.. but well one needs to tink about parents, my current bf..the other frns..as well as the rest of your life..sometimes society can be cruel and well i'd rather not go down that path..really..
its not that im not happy with my bf now..its just dat im just as happy with this gal..i dream alot about her..fantasize she is just like me a les/bi..but well..when i wake its all nothing..
how can i ease my heart/brain n drift away from these thoughts but yet stil keep her a friend?
2006-07-07 15:39:25 · 4 answers · asked by acnemycin 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First off being a lesbian, bisexual, or bi-curious are all different things. You should figure out how you feel. Not that you have to label yourself but you need to know who you have romantic feeling for truly. Next you will have to be true to your heart, if you want to be happy. You cannot live a lie forever and not be sad. About your family and friends, it's not going to be easy but they should know you, don't hide. The world is not always a friendly place (I know) but nobody can accept you if they don't know who you really are. Give them the chance to know you. They might just like you. Be yourself.
2006-07-07 15:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to experiment with you. If you don't like it, stay friends. If you do, talk to your bf about being bi and if you like your relationship together.
2006-07-07 15:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Poppi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love (attraction) is not just limited to the opposite sex. What you do with those attractions is up to you.
If you know this girl so well, ask her thoughts on gender preferences. Let her lead.
Good luck.
2006-07-07 16:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by J. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart.
2006-07-07 16:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by pistolpete797@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋