I'M married and I would say I am happy to be married to this man. He is loving, kind, and caring. But l have feeling also for another man that has been coming on to me. I have known this man for years, he had never voiced his feeling for me until here lately. He is married also and has a family. I don't really know what to do. I have feeling for both men. I love my husband, but I am also afraid I am going to do something really stuipd that I will regret later with the other guy.
Give me your ideas on what to do in this case.
2006-07-07 15:38:27 · 14 answers · asked by tootyfruity64 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Run, as far and fast as you can from this new, other man. I'm on in the same shoes as your husband right now. Except my wife chose the other man. Now families are wrecked. Think of this...what kind of man is this other man if he's willing to risk breaking his wife's heart and your husband's. He's only thinking of himself. Whose to say he wouldn't do the same to you later. RUN!
2006-07-07 16:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by YadaYada 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You made a commitment to your husband, not this other guy who has been flirting with you. Not to mention, Mr. Flirty has a wife and family. As a wife yourself, understand how this would effect your marriage, and don't put a fellow "wife" in that position. Imagine the impact you would have on Mr. Flirty's children if his infidelity caused a divorce. How would you be able to handle it if you were the cause of the children's broken home?
Infidelity is usually a symptom that something else is wrong in your marriage. Work with your husband to help him make you feel the way Mr. Flirty makes you feel. Your husband deserves the chance to make you feel the way Mr. Flirty makes you feel.
I hope this helps! Good Luck!
2006-07-07 22:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would stay with my husband. You are setting your self up for some major heartbreak, and it isn't worth it. I would ask the other man to please leave me alone, and that I'm not interested in going any further with the relationship he wants with me. If you love your husband like you say you do then stay with him, and don't do anything stupid. You could go ahead and start a relationship with this other guy, and end up losing your husband, and then if the other man wont leave his wife for you then your the one who ends up all alone and very very unhappy. Just take yourself out of the situation before it can go any further.
2006-07-07 23:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by piperhound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it with a grain of salt...don't do anything that you regret later. You love your husband.. respect him too. If the other guy is doing his wife like that you know he can't be trusted in the long run. If he wants to mess around...let him mess his own family up not yours.
2006-07-07 22:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do the stupid thing and be a part of ruining two families. You could lose everything. Is a little sexual gratification worth losing everything for. You'll just have to tell this man NO, friends or nothing, if you can't just be friends with him, then I suggest you break all ties.
2006-07-07 22:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him off ASAP! If you feel that temptation is growing strong, then try not to put yourself into certain situations. Try and put yourself in your husband shoes, and imagine how he'd feel if he new that another man could capture the love of his life's heart; and then again try and imagine how his wife and children would feel if some women came in and turned there world upside down. At this point I wouldn't even remain friends
2006-07-07 22:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by yelloerose07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its better to stay wid ur hubby coz the other doesn't guarantee u bout ur his relationship and plus he is also a married man so y to take a risk of ur happy family it can just a kind of attraction wid that other person so u will overcome it
2006-07-07 22:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married! Sorry sweetie, but you made the commitment. That is so EXTREMELY selfish of you! Sorry, but it is. I mean, are you just LOOKING for trouble? If you are happy, why risk all of that?
And if you really loved your husband, that other guy would be nothing to you. Think about others first, it is the key to happiness.
2006-07-07 22:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are afraid you will regret it later and don't act on your feelings for him. Once you cross that line and hurt the man you truly love deeper than he can forgive, you will regret it for the rest of you life...and then some. Trust me on this one.
2006-07-07 22:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love your husband, cut all ties with this other man. Don't do anything to risk loosing your family and marriage. It just is not worth it
2006-07-07 22:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by Teresa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋