It's just that the guy I speak of past away a few years ago, and oddly enough I just found out and I just want to make of a couple of things that's all. By the way your answers helped thanxs.
2006-07-07 15:30:52 · 10 answers · asked by friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to his family, or friends that were close to him,visit his grave ,say goodbye.Some people take a long time to get over,some you never forget(not supposed to),at least you may find closier and be able to move on. goodluck.
2006-07-07 15:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by mrimprovize59@verizon.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't. People around you will tell you to get over it and quit obsessing, but take it from me. I became a widower at 30. People don't understand what it is like to lose your mate at a young age. Don't worry about what people think, do what you have to move on and find closure. This is one wound that never really heals. Don't feel guilty about moving on, he wants you too enjoy your life. He doesn't want you to be sad for him because he is happy in heaven, how could he not be? He had the chance to meet you in life, and now he can look out for you. Take care I hope you find the answers you are looking for.
2006-07-07 22:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all grieve in different ways. The most important thing is that we do grieve. This is a part of closure and we need to do this to get past losing a loved one. We all grieve in different ways. What might seem different to somebody else is sometimes what it takes to make us feel better. Follow your heart. You'll be just fine.Of course, if your thinking of doing anything illegal or anything that will harm yourself. Then you might want to consider professional help. Have a good day and peace be with you!
2006-07-07 22:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by lfahrne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Whatever the relationship was with this person. good, bad or indifferent, you need to find a way to come to peace with his passing. We all seek to find closure, whether it be from the loss of a loved one to the end of a relationship. By getting closure, we are able to be at peace and move on with our lives. Good luck to you.
2006-07-07 22:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of closure are you looking for? If its things that you wanted to say to him -- write a letter and mail it to an non-existant address - it will wind up back at the post office. Say everything you want to say and you'll find closure.
2006-07-07 22:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Scarlett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
closure is for easing a person's own mind. we thorw that term around far too often to justify actions. since this person has passed on you'll never really get the answers you seek.
try to live in the'now' and not the "what if"
2006-07-07 22:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by robin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
closure is the best way to make you feel better about your self and not only that you learn that you can let go i am sorry about your lose
2006-07-07 22:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by nicks girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely....much better to close the issue than to wonder....but I personally hate not knowing.....
2006-07-07 22:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jess M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clousure is wonderful.. be careful and enjoy the peace!
2006-07-07 22:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by alliepoetesswitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, we all must do this.
2006-07-07 22:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋