i see people in relationships that when they break up have so much hate for each other after having so much love for each other over such a long time.
is Hate = Love x Time² true?
if we love someone 100% for 2 years, we will hate them (100 x 2² = 400) 400% when we break up, this looks to be True from what i have seen. what do you guys think?
was Einstein on to something far bigger than universe when he worked out E=MC²
2006-07-07 15:27:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
i wouldnt say this is true. i broke up with my girlfriend over 5 years ago after a 3 year relationship and i dont hate her 900%. i still love her today even though we dont speak and can only wish her the best. in the end it just didnt work out but that does not mean i hate her.
2006-07-07 15:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by ducknapper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex and I broke up after being together for over 16 years. We're best friends. We were also very much in love for at least 14 of those years. Nice theory, though. I think people hate each other because they can't forgive. If you can identify with the other person and understand that no break-up is one sided, then you can forgive. In forgiving, you heal yourself and can get on with your life.
2006-07-07 15:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't hate any one who I've loved. Hate is something people do most likely out of defense. I guess if you get so sick of someone you'll not want to be around them, but it's no cause for hate. If my spouse had sex with everyone of my family and friends and I found out, I might try to hate her, but that never happened, so I'll never know.
2006-07-07 15:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by fingerssfv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure,coz i love my ex for 6 years
so that would 100 x 6 sqaured = 600%, so now we've split up is hould hate him 600%,which i just cant seem to do,i seem to now love him 600% more than i did before! (but there is always an exception to the rule,so maybe thats what i am,lol)
2006-07-07 15:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by geri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think its true if u love some1 that much for so many years how on earth can u hate them, maybe you think you hate them for what they have done but deep down inside you love them more than they and yourself will ever know
2006-07-14 12:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by bn_abernethy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course not. Love begins to show only when there is no surface award apparently on the obvious surface.
2006-07-14 07:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by ran e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are the same emotion, the positive and negative. Your model infers that if you love somebody then eventually you'll hate them exponentially more, and that's wrong.
2006-07-07 15:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems like one way (among others) to protect oneself against lovesickness;
no to be loved back causes anger.
2006-07-07 15:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by mrlionelhuds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋