i'm gay but i was kinda forced into it by my friend because we started being gay when we were really young now he went strait and i dont know if i shoould to because there are no other gay people in my area i can even talk to plz help!
2006-07-07 14:59:33 · 14 answers · asked by gayboy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you can "go straight", then gay is probably not the best label for you. If you're bi, whatever. Your call.
2006-07-08 18:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
now i know you said "gay guys only" but your question seems all too familiar. I am a straight female but I'm in the fashion industry (if you catch my drift). I believe that you should do what you feel is right. There are two ways you can figure that out. First, go on a date with both sexes (at seperate times, of course); pick someone you find sexually and mentally attractive and go on a date with them. You will be able to find out which one you like best. If you can't decide then then maybe you are bisexual. And there is nothing wrong with that. The second way is to go somewhere (vacation) by yourself, so you can be yourself, and see who comes to you or who you go to. I mean, like in a club or on a beach. What person do you look at? The sexy brunette with great legs, or the guy with muscles that could ripe off a tight shirt???
I hope this helps...
2006-07-07 15:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like gay sex? Are you attracted to men? Did you feel LOVE or was it just sex? You can't turn on gay and straight like hot and cold water, but I guess straight guys can have gay sex, and sometimes gay guys have straight sex.
Or you might be bisexual. You just have to see how it works for you.
I worry when a guy guy goes with women just for lack of a better choice or because it is expected of him, because often he ends up married with kids, and then decides he has to come out. A lot of other people get hurt then. So just think it through. Then you'll do what's best for you. Good luck.
2006-07-07 15:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 01:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO one is ever forced into being gay...lots of young kids fool around with each other...but I think you need to talk to someone professional about being gay. It's not so bad.
2006-07-07 17:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could you be forced into being gay? were you raped? if so, then you need to seek counseling to deal with the issues that come from being raped.
dude, if you were a willing participant, and you liked what you were doing then, and like what you do now. if you are attracted to guys, and want pursue relationships-mental and physical relationships, then why make it harder on you to be something you're not?
be who you are, don't think about what you're friend did-he did what he knew was right for him, and you do what you know is best for you.
much luck to you!
2006-07-13 17:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by Krazie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
excuse me? so are gay or not, that's not something you can really decide.
But if you're talking about saying that ur not (lieing), than I would recommend no. It sounds like you're still pretty really young and it gets harder in time to "come out". The earlier you do it the easier it tends to be.
2006-07-07 15:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Brendon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't believe all these buffoons and their answers about how you can't help it if you're gay. homosexuality is a lifestyle choice and a deviant and depraved one at that. you can come out of this sickness if you make that choice. i know that you can overcome the sick conditioning which this immoral and crazy society seems to be shoving down our throats. stay strong and go get you a female. and quit calling yourself "gayboy". you'll only identify with that life style more if you do. call yourself a man and start acting like it. nuff said...
2006-07-07 15:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by chancejty98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one there is no such thing a kinda gay u either are or are not.There are always more gay people you will just have to search out how to meet them. the web works. If you were not gay then how did you get it up to have sex.
2006-07-10 12:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't something you can choose, but it is what you feel. If you are turned on and attracted to guys, you should explore that side of who you are. If you find that you are not attracted to guys, so how well girls turn you on. Bottom line, you can't turn it on or off like a switch
2006-07-07 18:10:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like being gay you shouldnt change because your friend has,if you dont know anyone to hook up with you could tell your friend your problem and ask him to set you up with men that want to have fun with you,i did this with a friend and even told him my fanticy where he dominated me and took me to mens houses for them to use,he liked my idea and even makes a few bucks by charging .yes i let him pimp me out and love it
2006-07-10 07:19:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋