I am wanting opinions on how someone should feel in a marriage? What are feelings you should have if you are in a marriage? Care, love, support, etc
2006-07-07 14:36:50 · 17 answers · asked by billieosborne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am a guy and i have been married for 6 years i have always felt nothing but love, support, friendship, courtesy, caring, strength, and many more, i show her the same. one of our first rules when we got married was to NEVER talk bad about the other behind their back nor to one another, if you don't have these kind of feelings in your marriage than something really needs to change
2006-07-07 14:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by scorpion 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a young white woman in the US I can't quite relate. But I know back in my grandparents day it was customary for the man to ask the womans' father permission to marry her. The blessing of the parents was very important to whether people got married or not back then. I hate to say it but my grandparents probably weren't all that compatible and now they only stay together because according to my grandpa he "doesn't have much longer to live anyway." Which is really sad and horrible. He is 86 years old and probably has more life in him than he thinks. I wish they could just be happy. :( I mean that wasn't exactly an arranged marriage though. Their was some choice in it. Some older people from that generation/culture are doing very well and are not tired of each other at all. Some people actually do fall in love later in life years after getting married which is interesting although I'm not sure how common it is. I am not even 100% sure how an actual arranged marriage works. Do they just find a woman for you and tell her she has to marry you? I'm only remotely familiar with it from friends and from what I have read. It seems like it would be a better idea to know the person before hand regardless of how tiring dating seems. Some people feel like they have just settled (like my grandparents) and the culture at that time didn't allow divorce so they stuck through it. I don't think it really made them very happy though. :(
2016-03-26 21:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The honest truth..... It feels like an up and down roller coaster! If this is the right person for you, you will have the feeling of not being able to live with out them. When he or she does something wrong that hurts you, you will feel a deep pain in your heart and knot in your tummy.
Although, you will have wonderful days that you share happiness, laughter, and love. Then suddenly you will have days that you will fight like crazy, say harsh words that you don't really mean. But at the time you truly think you mean it. There are many ups and downs in a marriage.
Hope I helped some, good luck..:)
2006-07-07 15:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I are married 45 years guess I can ans this one..Content-happy-secure.. 45 years and I still think this lady is as beautifull as the day I married her..I love doing things for her to make her happy. My kidds say I'm sick but I tell her 10/20 times a day that I love her..I worry about her getting hurt, getting sick. NOW HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF A GUY THOUGHT THIS WAY ABOUT YOU/// AND THATS WHAT MARRAGE SHOULD FEEL LIKE, By the way she does the same for me..I have my sole mate and thank the good load for her every day...Marrage is hard and boy you have to work at it but sooner or later all your work becomes habbit and you won... LOL One lucky guy ROB
2006-07-07 14:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is special. If it is the right person then you feel whole inside, like the world has been handed to you.
2006-07-07 14:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a question usually asked by those about to tie the knot or are not sure about their actions in marriage. there's not one way marriage feels since you re in it your whole life you tend to experience a series of feelings happiness, sadness, bad times good times. but what makes your marriage beautiful is your ability to weather through the storm . bad times mus come but their purpose is only to promote understanding between the man and woman and to strenghten the bond between them
2006-07-07 14:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ayobami M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel as though if the other person got sick, you would do anything to take care of them and stand by them. You should feel unconditional love for them and all their human foibles. (You might have to remind yourself of that quite a lot). You must be willing to compromise many things and to give of yourself and to sacrifice at times. Not constantly, but the feelings should be there that you are willing.
2006-07-07 14:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by heart_focus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should feel like u met the person u want to spend the rest of you life with and that there is no other person u will ever love more and u get butter fly in your stomach every time u see her/him it will be a farm feeling in your heart and u will just know that is the person for u
2006-07-07 14:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by blondie94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a partnership. Respect. support and above all Love and trust
2006-07-07 14:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel secure........you have found the one that you will walk on glass to be with, who would do the same for you. Who respects you and vice versa.
2006-07-07 14:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋