I was with my boyfriend for 7.5 years. We broke up a year ago. It is only hitting me now. He has another girlfriend and it is getting quite serious. He tells me he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. I have felt the pain of depression, but this is completely different. I feel like I am in mourning. The sadness hits in waves and I will find myself crying with the smallest triggers. Any kind words?
2006-07-07 14:29:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Been there sweetheart. It is like mourning a death. Go out with your friends. Treat some guys badly. Then find the real one. You will. The best revenge is happiness. Don't feel bad for yourself. Keep busy, go back to school, get a better job, aim for a cool car. Focus on a prize and you'll start to feel better. Good luck. My heart is with you...
2006-07-07 14:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by noitall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard. It helps if the guy is a jerk like my exwife. I had a hard time with it and wanted her back (boo hoo) til I realized how self serving and hateful she really was. Finding out she had an affair while she was married to me helped too. Now I don't have respect for her so I just don't have anything to do with her unless it is about or with the kids. My heart is still broke so I don't really know how to fix one but at least you can cope with his decision to move on and focus on somebody else or even yourself and your family. Good Luck. P.S. Our wedding annversary was the 4th and I watched our wedding video (yeah, I cried). I don't recommend reflecting with pictures and what not.
2006-07-07 14:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by RussellMania 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are mourning the loss of such a lengthy relationship. But you will come back in time. You have to accept what happened and move on to better things for yourself. He has found someone else and so can you. I wish you all the best.
2006-07-07 14:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny im sorry u cant i have had my heart broken many of times and the best thing u can do is find some one else and go one and i know u think its imposible but it aint i thought it was 2 but it isnt...it might ttake u a while it did me too but there is all wayz some one else.......
2006-07-07 14:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by gfschick_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a good guy that loves u for u and not for sex, who wants to stay with you...and hang out lots with your best friend...but dont stay at home to yourself...get out the house and live a lil u deserve it!!
2006-07-07 14:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by blairest2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about him, find a good boyfriend that will stay with you, or try and forget him
2006-07-07 14:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to tell u this but there is nothin u can do.it takes time for these kinda things,i no cause im goin thru it right now so but its happened to me twice so right now im as heartless as i could b
2006-07-07 14:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by Gollum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋