2006-07-07 14:23:39 · 12 answers · asked by thicknessbnunique 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take a trip down memory lane and remember what it was like between you's when you where first dating. Try to notice the things she does and let her know you appreciate it etc.
Try seeing the movie Break up. It's a good lesson.
2006-07-07 14:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. this signifies that they imagine you're literally not affectionate adequate... Why not merely artwork on it? You ever listen of the holding, throwing out the child with the bathtub water? It signifies that you're meant to take the child out then drain the bathtub. through having yet another boyfriend/lady friend, you're tossing away a courting that couldn't have the different difficulty outdoors of lacking affection...
2016-11-06 01:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend says that you're not affectionate anymore? And what does she mean by that, lke you don't take her out anymore or buy her things or anything? Or that you don't seem to be loving her like the way you used to? Well I think she's forgetting that those usually happen when you are first dating them, like alwyas taking them out and such, and it's never a bad thing to do it occasionally. Also, in the beginning of a relatlionship there's usually lots of holding hands, kissing, sex, and such, but I believe as time goes by you begin to get comfortable with them so things begin to die down. To spice it up again, surprise her and take her to her favourite restaraunt, or even cook her a romantic meal at home. Surprise her to the movies with already-bought tickets, so she'll think that you planned this ahead of time. She'll love that. Also, to spice things up in bed, buy her a new sexy lingerie and ask her to wear it and pretend that the sex is like the way it was the very first times. Hope this helps.
2006-07-07 14:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when women complain about not enough affection it's because they are not affectionate. Ever notice how women want to just lay back & let the guy do all the work. Woman have not had to learn how to pleasure their man for instance oral stimulation, sucking the guys breasts, those little things that women are taught in India. Most women aren't even aware that they aren't the least bit romantic
2006-07-07 14:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by henry a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do whatever it was that you were doing to keep her this long. try a date night..this works wonders for a lot of cour a note in theples. write he morning telling her how much you cant wait to spend time with her in the afternoon when you get home. Make sure to remember that just because youve been together for so long you still need to tell her how much she means to you and how you enjoy your life together. Your in a "rut" everyone has them, you wont be there forever. Just take it day by day, remember to hold her hand when your walking, put your arm around her or your hand on her leg when your watching tv, and cuddle everynight. good luck...
2006-07-07 14:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her alot, touch her...for no reason, stroke her hair or her back, kiss her neck, face, shoulders just for the heck of it. Take hold of her hand when you're out, place your hand on the small of her back while you walk together, look at her and smile, think of all the things you've done and remember them when you look in her eyes. Tell her you love her!
2006-07-07 14:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by sekhtet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST FIND OUT WHAT THE PROBLEM IS AND SEE IF THERE IS ANYTHING THAT YOU COULD DO TO CORRECT IT. BECAUSE IF YOU HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 8 YRS. YES YOU HAVE LOST THAT AFFECTION FOR A MINUTE, BUT GO BACK TO THE FIRST DAY THAT YOU MEET HER AND RECREATE THE WHOLE SCENE AGAIN AND SWEEP HER OFF HER FEET AND ASK HER TO MARRY YOU.
2006-07-07 14:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sing Stand by Me by Marvin Gaye to her
2006-07-07 14:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by daredsox04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
easy , when you come home give her a kiss a huge tell her you missed her, when you leave do the same and when you go to bed do the same and when you wake up ,its not hard and it will change alot for her.......also take her somewhere special she loves
2006-07-07 14:28:59 · answer #9 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HUGS AND LOTS OF KISSES..... BACK AND FOOT RUBS ....CUDDLING IS ALWAYS GOOD......THEN THERE IS JUST HOLDING HANDS.....THESE THE I LOVE YOU ......
I NEED YOU....GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-07-07 14:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋