I enjoy the company of guys! I can be myself and they are just fun to kick it with! Is it wrong if i'm spoken for?
2006-07-07 14:04:34 · 19 answers · asked by lollipop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No. Just let your guy friends know, upfront, who is your #1 priority. I have always had a lot of guy friends. They are fun to hang out with...typically more casual and laid back. They don't gossip, etc. Guys make good friends...just let them know about your boyfriend and always remind your boyfriend who you love.
2006-07-07 14:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by mmcfarland483 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who spoke? it sounds like you're still open to options. Does you spoken one like it? ANd how close are you to the guys. They all probably would not turn down sex if you offered and they are most likeky hoping for a chance. Believe me that the way guys think unless they are Gay or Wimps but even the wimps are hoping even if they say they are just friends.
2006-07-07 21:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, as long as you realize that most, if not all, of the guys want to sleep with you. But not a problem unless you act on it. Just make sure to be honest and forthcoming with your boyfriend about when you see your guy friends and when you talk to them. If you don't hide anything your boyfriends will be more secure.
2006-07-07 21:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by JD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. If you're current b/f doesn't like it, he might not trust you. But if your spending more time with them than him, I could see where he'd get jealous.
But the short answer is no. You should be allowed to have whomever you want as friends.
But I would recommend you be careful, since you seem to be a poor judge of character. After all, you got me all wrong. You think you know me, but you don't. You called me a dork and then got mad when I gave you bullshit answers to your questions. Sounds like bigotry to me.
But it's up to you who your friends are. Who cares what other's think, you know the truth.
2006-07-08 17:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by asterisk_dot_asterisk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I used to prefer guys too. Girls at one time or another
can be like a gaggle of geese. Just to giddy .
Now that I am older I do like my girl friends.
And as long as you're not doing anything sexy with the guys
I think your spoken for guy should be ok with it.
2006-07-07 21:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how you feel. i am one who is in the same shoes as you..i just seem to get along better with guys. its nothing personal, some women just dont click well with other females, usually because of some issue stemming from envy or something else totally beyond your control. does your man have friends you can hang out with? or maybe if he has major issues with it, you can ask him what you should do...im sure if he really adores you, youll come to a happy resolution.
2006-07-07 21:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by No1ELSEcomesCLOSE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! There isn't anything wrong with you having guy friends.....unless your definition of having guy friends is something else. I hang out with a lot of guys but that's as far as it will go. We're just friends period.
2006-07-07 21:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I'm engaged, and most of my friends are male. Just make sure your guy knows that they are just friends. A jealous boyfriend is what causes problems, not the gender you choose to befriend.
2006-07-07 21:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT AT ALL!! I used to have all guy friends. I just don't get along with women much. I just lost touch with them when I got married and moved out of state.
2006-07-07 21:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER most of my friends are guys i didnt grow up with a male figure in my life and thats why i love the attention from guyz but only in that way with my boyfriend!!!!
2006-07-07 21:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by HeatherHaphazzard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋