She has told you that it is her friend's brother but you still have doubts. Should I tell her to leave the house?
2006-07-07 14:00:20 · 10 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
We usually trust each other but her best friend has gotten pregnant for another man other than her boyfriend. What should I do?
2006-07-07 14:02:29 · update #1
THROW THE ***** OUT ON HER *** AND CHANGE THE LOCKS!
2006-07-07 14:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by LARCO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SPY SPY SPY
Thats my best advice. Next time she stays all night out, you follow her.
Hell I dont care if people tells me that I dont have trust, if another man answers HER phone, the trust is lost. A cellphone is something no one else is allowed to answer. (unless its your spouse or close family)
Spy her, and once you find out who the dude is, first check if you can take him, if you do, kick his *** and let her know thats your trust what you are giving him. If you cant take him, then you pretty much got your answer of why she changed you. Gotta work out man.
Anyway, if you find out she was indeed saying the truth and only spent time with friends, then dont ever spy her again, as the trust test will be passed.
2006-07-07 14:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is a very serious one. I think you need a lawyer today. Take her off all of your credit cards and bank accounts. Put all her clothes into a box and leave them in the front yard. Change the locks on all the doors. Change your phone number. Get ready to be a swinging bachelor again.
2006-07-07 14:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first he shouldn'd be answering her phone...unless he was close by it (or her). why did she leave it out? These thigns never get resolved. You will always feel bad and you will always think about it. I say if it's worth the pain and constant numbing in your brain....except it...if not tell her your just not comfortable and you need space and time.....what was her excuse for not coming home.....there shouldn't be one...me and my boo always go get the other when we can't drive or left with no ride...it's a respect thing...that keeps the trust on a good level....and if one has to stay out...we know the deal ahead of time.....
2006-07-07 14:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she ever given you a reason to doubt her? If you really trust her then you need to give her the benefit of the doubt! Just because her friend cheated doesn't mean she ever would! I have a close friend who has cheated and I've been married for 13 years and never have and never would cheat myself.
2006-07-07 14:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love those ones: Married adult males stay longer than unmarried adult males, yet married adult males are a lot extra prepared to die. a woman marries a guy searching ahead to he will substitute, yet he would not. a guy marries a woman searching ahead to that she will be able to not substitute & she does. a woman has the perfect note in any argument. some thing a guy says after it truly is the starting up of a sparkling argument. it truly is so genuine yet so humorous! i love it! and im happy i'm unmarried now! hahahahhahaha!
2016-11-06 01:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-09 00:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about kicking her out the house BUT...I would definitely suspect...sorry. I would say that she's seeing someone else. You could wait and see if it continues (i.e. find other clues) or you could just get rid of her and start over.
It's your choice.
2006-07-07 14:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by liljomo1234 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call a lawyer..lol...The question is.. do you want to continue to live with some one who disapears all night..how long do you want to live like that and feel this way.. a real woman would give no reason to mistrust her..real men to for that matter... There's better love, sweeter than ever..GET RID OF IT!
2006-07-07 14:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by TimeWastersInc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would anyone YOU know answer YOUR phone without your permission
2006-07-07 14:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by rochelle_hall2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋