I like to have another baby but my boyfriend is scared since last nov we had a still born girl what should Ido

Question

My daughter passed away last Nov and I dream of her often and she tells me it's alright to have another baby but my boyfriend is to scare to do this

Answer 1

Visit to doctor but take him with you so doctor explains him everything and tranquilizes him. Having a professional opinion could help him on this.

Answer 2

I recommend that both of you go to a psychologist, they can help him get over your child's death and be able to move on. I don't know if there was a specific reason for why your baby was still born but I suggest that both of you go visit a good doctor so that he can test you just to assure to your bf that your healthy and that everything will be fine, allow the doctor to explain to him the reasons why some babies are still born and how to prevent it. After this I hope he is ready to give it another try, let him know that some people come to this world to teach and others to learn and that your first daughter came to teach you guys that you have to be great parents and love your children. wish u the best of luck, God bless u and ur family. : )

Answer 3

My aunt and uncle had a still born girl at full term. They had a really hard time, counseling helped them. I know they waited about 2 yrs to have another and was glad they did. They ended up having 3 healthy kids after that! I would also visit with your doctor on some things you can do to make sure your body is ready for it (and mind!) Best of luck, and also very sorry to hear you lost your baby. I could not imagine how that would feel.

Answer 4

Stop thinking about Ur boyfriends desire and focus on yours, u should visit your doctor if he suggests that it is OK to try for another baby and that the child could be 98% healthy, do it. You need to tell Ur lover that the relationship is about both of you, and that he should he should respect Ur wants and opinions.

Answer 5

Get married. instead of having a babies dady.