me and my bf had a fight and he got mad at me and he hasn't called me in a few days...but my friend called him and he told her that me and him were still going out but he just doesn't like me as much as he use to....my friends keep telling me to break up with him, but i love him so much and i don't want to be with anyone else. what should i do? i feel so hurt by what he said. we have been going out for 6 months and i might break up with him i'm not sure yet, will i be making a big mistake?
2006-07-07 13:17:55 · 34 answers · asked by pshh =] 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if i talk to him wat should i say?
2006-07-07 13:39:41 · update #1
Go over to where he's at and sit with him and talk to him. talk out your problems and be mature about this. Don't listen to you're friends. They think they know what to do but they don't feel the love you have for you. Your boyfriend is probably still hurt. He said that because he knows they will tell you and then you will know that he still wants to have the relationship but he still hurts from the arguement. If he didn't like you the same way he would said you and he are over but because he didn't that means he still wants you. Go get him before it's to late
2006-07-07 13:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 21⤊ 15⤋
Blasphemy is a sin, you know.
If God is love, then to treat love so pettily is to treat God the same.
If you've been 'seeing' someone for six months and you believe you love them, then you don't know what love is.
Affection: Sure
Attraction: Sure.
Obsession: Sounds like it.
Need: Probably not, though it may seem like it.
In the end, it will may be a mistake to leave it, but it won't be a huge one. In ten years, it will only matter if you compound it by making more mistakes (dating lesser men, going back to the wrong man repeatedly, whatever).
In other words, if you live a reasonable life, it won't be a huge mistake. You can go on. You _should_ be able to go on.
Take a few minutes to breathe and realize that this is not as important as it seems. Remember that almost everything that seems like it matters is just an illusion.
2006-07-07 13:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by loserthree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fights dont have good outcomes. He probably resents whatever happened during the fight so he said that to piss u off. Don't go and break up w/ him without a fight. If u truly love him, show up at his house w/ a gift and tell him how sry u are and how u wish this never happened and that u wish everything was the way it was. That SHOULD settle everything, but if he still feels the same way, go ahead and ditch the dude
2006-07-07 13:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all definitely CALL and DO NOT break up with him if u still like him
he might've just been pissed off when he said that hes losing feelings and dunt take ur friends word for it cause you need to talk to him
call him and tell him that u still like him and that your sorry and your always here for him and tell him to call you back when hes ready (dont sound clingy!)
after that give him some space and time to think things over because if hes losing interest in you, u dont want to be in his presese too long or it might just anooy him
just make sure that whenever hes near by, make sure ur having fun and dont look at him too much (although saying hi is good)
and wait for him to call you back ok??
your probably going through rough time and I wish you luck!
2006-07-07 13:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're leaning on the side of your friends and really they seem like they know you best...however, they don't know your boyfriend more than you do. To make sure you won't be making a huge mistake, I think you should take the initiative and call him and talk about it. Breaking up with him when you are not sure that you really want to can end up in disaster.
2006-07-07 13:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By staying with him, you're only risking your heart, not his. Do yourself a favor and ditch him. There are plenty of guys in the world and if he isn't into you like you are with him, then he's not worth your time or energy. Next time you talk to him, it's highly recommended that you tell him it's over. Enjoy being single for awhile, learn to be happy alone, learn to make yourself happy. Because in the end, that's all that matters, how happy you are. Staying with him will just lead to much more heartbreak. Make a clean break now and save yourself the future pain and misery.
2006-07-07 13:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Manders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well You should STOP having your friend be your messenger and just call him your self ! If you really love him that much and he loves you then you two should be able to talk this over like adults ! some times guys just need you to hear you say your sorry and you love him ........just call him up and tell him how your REALLY feel and if he feels the same way then he'll forgive you and vice versa but dont just break up with him b/c he hasent called that just shows that he just needs some timne and that he really is hurting ! GOOD LUCK
2006-07-07 13:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a dead beat and it might seem that you love him lots but
he's not worth a penny. Don't lower yourself to his level. I know it hurts terribly, but time will heal it, trust me on this.
Go out with someone else, there are lots of other guys out there
and you will find someone who will appreciate you. In the meantime watch a chickflick and have a big cry. A couple of weeks down the road you WILL feel better. Give it time, Eat some chocolate.
2006-07-07 13:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he is acting like a little kid. You don't need that crap from anyone!!!
Second, nothing has ever been worked out when people don't talk to each other.
Third he is talking behind your back and telling people he doesn't like you as much. That must make you feel really hurt.
I would dump the Jerk and find a real man
2006-07-07 13:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is nothing not sure how old you are but semms like you are maybe younger then 25. He is probally out with somebody else as we speak why not go out and have fun. Life is to short to worry about 6 months worth of an relationship.
2006-07-07 13:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! if u love him like that then u shouldnt just break up with him. Dont give in just yet. Yes you should be a bit hurt by what he said. But then again did u hear it from him or from ur friends? Ur friends could just be messing with u, especially if one of ur friends wants him for themself. Anyways it could turn out if it is true wat he said he coulda just been saying that cuz he was mad....Give him a call see how things turn out. If u really love him dont give up!
Good Luck :)
2006-07-07 13:28:29 · answer #11 · answered by lol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋