What would you do?

Question

If your boyfriend was in Florida for the summer [visiting family] and his brother writes/calls you up telling you he's been seeing [your boyfriend] with one of his cousin's friends....do you believe it or what? I've tried talking to him, but lately it seems[espescially in the last several months] we've been growing sort of...apart. We don't really talk as much anymore but he still tells me he loves me and stuff. And when I talk to him about it, he always says nothing's happening between them and that he only loves me and he'd never do anything like that to me. I want to believe him, but it's just too......suspicious.Help!!!!!

Answer 1

If he hasn't lied to you before, why should he now?

Answer 2

Some guys will say anything to keep you on the back up if something doesn't work out with one of there flings. he is on vacation and thinks he can let loose a little and lie about it. If you have talked to him about it and still feel that something isn't right, maybe he isn't right. His brother may be just looking out for your best interest. Sometimes our gut feeling is right, but our heart says another. You may just need to look for a guy that will be up front with you and want to spend more time with you. You don't deserve to be in suspense all summer over wether you will have a boyfriend in a few weeks.

Answer 3

I heard Dr Phil say to a girl once. Don't waste your energy worring about if your boyfriend is cheating or not. If he is going to do it there is nothing you can do to prevent him doing it. Worrying is only going to stress you out. Asking and accusing him of things is only going to make you look insecure in his eyes.
If the relationship seems to be going down hill, ask yourself what can I do to try to make it better. Think of some ways that you and him can spend some time together that will be fun for both of you.

Answer 4

SOMETIMES BEST FRIENDS, BEST COUSINS OR BEST GIRLFRIENDS TELL! LITTLE LADY THE GIRL HE'S BEEN SEEN WITH IS HIS GIRLFRIEND.HE'S GOING TO TELL YOU WHAT YOU WANNA HEAR.LOVE DOESN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THIS.THE REASON WHY YOU AND HIM ARE GROWING APART IS BECAUSE HIS ATTENTION IS ON THE GAL IN FLORIDA.YOU WOULD GET TRUE ANSWERS FROM THE FRIEND THAN YOUR BOYFRIND.IF HE CARED ABOUT YOU.DEAR.NOONE WOULD HAVE SEEN HIM HANGING WITH ANOTHER GIRL.AND THEY MUST BE DOING IT ALL,BECAUSE YOU WERE TOLD,HE'S WITH THIS OTHER GAL.I AM MARRIED FOR 14 YEARS AND I'VE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT.YOU SHOULD TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE NOT STUPID AND THE WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND HIM AND HIS LIES.TELL HIM YOU KNOW AND IT'S YOUR CHOICE TO PUT UP WITH IT NOT HIS.DON'T EVER LET ANOTHER PERSON CONTROL YOUR FEELINGS,GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

You are apart so it is scarey but I agree if he has not lied to you before he probably isn't now. And if he is, the truth always shows itself sooner or later so do not worry about it and try to keep busy and carry on with your life. There is no reason to sit and stew over it or your imagination will take over and you may regret what you do.....

Answer 6

I would take a break from being in the relationship more then likely hes messing around with someone else since he cant be with you. Break up with him until he comes home that way you dont have to worry about him cheating on you and then your free to date also.

Answer 7

if u can't trust him why are u still with him if u do then u kno that he loves u only. and if ur both growing apart mayb its time u sit and talk about that and c if ur relationship is real or is it just a joke.

Answer 8

dont believe it completely and assume, but be wary. dont be oblivious to the fact that this could be true. also, maybe his brother is only telling the half-truth. be aware but not afraid.

Answer 9

I don't know we fla girls usually get what we want let's hope she don't want ya man

Answer 10

hell ya