If I should tell him since they are a couple and why would she have her profile on there if they are engaged and a couple?? Should I tell him??
2006-07-07 13:01:48 · 23 answers · asked by Jinx 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, if he saw your fiance on a dating service, would you want him to tell you? Or do u believe ignorance is bliss? You can save him alot of money in leagl fees (D I V O R C E) tell him before its too late.
2006-07-07 13:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by jenisisgrafix 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, you could, but not with your "wondering" hidden in there. If you have "wonderings" about why she has a profile on a dating service, say so to your brother. I'm my sisters' brother, and I loved my sisters' honesty more than anything, even if their thoughts or "wonderings" were wrong. And if your wonderings are right, there is nothing a brother loves better than a sister who fills him in on the facts that he, somehow, didn't see. Tell him, and see his reaction, and ask him why she has her picture/profile on a dating service website since they're engaged. Their could be a really simple and "goofy" reason, and then there could be a very serious and ugly one. Keep a watch for your brother, "Sis". We're not as "all knowing" as we like to believe and act. God Bless you.
2006-07-07 20:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print it out so that there is no doubt as to what it is, or where it is from. Then sit in your room and look at it.
You literally will hold your brothers future in your hands. Do you let it go and toss it? Or do you stick with blood and tell. You need to look at your motivation for wanting to give him the information because no matter what you do here he will be hurt.
If they are as you say engaged, it is only proper manners that she herself has told him about the dating service. Is that how the 2 of them met?
Show him, then he should, ask her to delete the profile. From my experience "shoot the messanger" comes to mind. But he's your brother and he loves you. You know what you need to do.
2006-07-07 20:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Beamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, turn that ***** in. She should know better. Unless it's an old profile. I'm in a serious relationship now but I know that my profile is still up on some dating sites. The only reason I haven't taken them down was because I don't even remember my password or which e-mail account it's going to.
2006-07-07 20:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, the best way you could take first, is asking her about her profile. I used to have a profile posted while I had a bf, it was because increased my self-confidence, I don't like to feel I am loosing the capability to find someone else. Just knew somebody else could be interested. I am not a cheater.
2006-07-07 20:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by marisa e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a good sister, you'd tell him. Who knows, it may be an old profile. Or it may be she's having second thoughts about your brother. In either case, tell your brother. Leave it to him to confront the fiancee, not you.
2006-07-07 20:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by abunnyman27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get an email acct with another free service, like hotmail or something. copy the link to the profile and send it to him if he has an email addy. That way you wouldn't be telling him it was you or anything and saving him from some Biatch whos cheating on him
2006-07-07 20:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by crzyernie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet.
You don't even know the details.
Ask her first - that's the right thing to do.
Someone might just be using her picture, or she might have been on that service a long time ago and isn't active anymore.
Don't gossip and spread doubt and cause trouble...ask her first.
2006-07-07 20:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Haven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck Yea you should. print it out too so he believes you. I know I would do it. and I hope he would do the same for me if he saw my boyfriend on a dating service. Girlfriends come and go... brothers last a lifetime.!
2006-07-07 20:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by Stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea tell him and if he says no she dont then u need to show him and i would make a copy of it of the pc so u wont have to go and find it on the internet he is your bro and u need to tell him that his gurl is got a profile like that u know
2006-07-07 20:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋