why do people say that if you lose your virgenite at a young age you will regret it????

Question

why???

Answer 1

Because that's what happened for most of us.

After you've been in a couple relationships, and then finally experience REAL LOVEmaking, you wish you had waited for someone with whom you could share the incredible experience of true intimacy.

Answer 2

Because like all other things in life … YOU should learn to first walk before you can RUN. What I mean is that if you are Old enough to …… then you can’t act like a child in other aspect of your life…. You must take responsibility.

On the other hand if you do decide to loose it sooner than later, then stop complaining, it’s all about attitude! You can take it as a learning experience or adopt a loser attitude – After all on the positive side your prospective spouse will be a direct beneficiary of the skills and experience you gain here.

There is a Dark side too here! The saying goes….. “Once you Pop you can’t Stop”. So the risk of turning into a whore is REAL… and when its all said and done your prospective spouse can do without the STD’s you have earned from your previous adventures…

Answer 3

because its usually true and as much as i heard it and hated it , it kinda was true. its all about maturity . and knowing for certain what you want. At a young age most people havent had enough experiences(note i did not say experience) to know what it is that they want YET. Theres no hurry...figure you out and then go for the gold. and if you do it and dont regret it all 10 yrs down the rd...then more power to you. But there is no way of knowing how you'll feel when your 10 years older. So leave it alone for right now.....go do other stuff.....and if your still unsure and confused you might try a community spiritual leader...im not too big on that idea for me, but it does work for other people. And there are still consequences to think about. you can be as careful as you can, and babies still happen. thats definately notr something you want holding you down at a young age. I got pregnant 2X on birth control and the first one, was only my 3rd time...and the condom broke....so that could bbe a really good example....date different guys for now get a feel for what it is your looking for so it is speacial and everything you thought it be.

Answer 4

Because there are emotional consequences to sex that most young people aren't prepared for. I was 16 and I don't regret it per se, but I do think that if I'd waited another couple of years I would have chosen someone who deserved me much more than the loser I lost it to. I don't think sex is wrong or bad or should be reserved only for marriage, but I do think it's a lot easier to respect yourself if you know you've made good choices about who to share it with.

Answer 5

I was in one relationship before I met my fiance. I obviously wasn't a virgin when my fiance and I started dating. I lost it to my ex who I had dated 1 1/2 years. Things didn't work out with us but it was for the better. I was 16 when I lost my virginity, 17 when I met my fiance. I'll admit, some girls become whores after losing their virginities. I was on my way. I got lucky though. I had 1 booty call as Mr. M. put it. That booty call ended up being the man I'm engaged to now. It's funny how things work out. I don't regret losing my virginity. My ex and I both learned from it. Sex is much better when you are in love. I've been with 2 men in my life. The first I had a relationship with before sex. The second it was sex before a relationship. That's about a 1 in a billion chance to end up like it had for me. My "booty call" and I are still together, nearly 4 years later. We have 2 beautiful daughters, neither were conceived on the night of that booty call....We're getting married as well as buying our first house next year. Just remember though, it may have worked out for me, but that rarely ever happens.

Answer 6

The way I see it, why would you want to give it up to some two time loser who doesn't want you anyway. Would you like to be just a booty call? I guess that you are, aren't you? I want to be the one and not the next. I don't eat chewed up meat so I only date foreign girls, new arrivals, that is. Have you not noticed how these girls are putting the rest of you used merchandise out of business? Men like FRESH meat, get it? That is why you will regret it. Subway has the right idea with its "eat fresh" commercial.
Mr. M on virgins.

Answer 7

not saying that i agree with this but i think that the reason "people" say this is first, to scare you and second, to try to keep you from losing it.
but to be a little more on the "people" side it is said because it holds slight truth........ when you're young you dont think about the pros and cons of having sex because you dont know what you're looking for, besides pleasure. i mean you dont sit and think about what the next step will be after sex is done. well, to be honest when i thought i was ready to lose my virginity the only thing i thought about was is it going to hurt, will i mess up the sheets, will we still be together, you know things like that.... not, should i try to save myself, is it really worth it, will i miss something i never had, those types of things. i was just ready cause that was how the mood had set itself. needless to say after it was all said and done i couldve and shouldve waited. i shouldve waited on the guy who was interested in showing me a good time instead of trying to please himself... i have no memorable moments of my first time... just me laying there IN PAIN thinking to myself is this what they were talking about? i wanted some four play and i couldve enjoyed some kind of love setting but i was too young to admire things like that so what was the point of someone going out their way giving it to me (especially when momma dont know what's going on)

Answer 8

Because you probably will.

When you meet someone you truly and genuinely love, you'll know how wrong it was to give it up to someone just because you felt like having sex. Sex can be very special and losing your viriginity is something that only happens ONCE. Pick someone worthy, wait a few months, and if they're still worthy, then go for it.

Answer 9

It is something that you will never get back. When you are young, you have so much pressure to give in that most end up doing so long before they really want to. You have the rest of your life for it....why is everyone in such a rush?

Answer 10

Because when you truely find that one man or women that you really love and want to spend the rest of your life with you will wish that you didn't have all that baggage. Trust me on this one. I'm 30 years old and lost mine at 15 years old. I wish now that i had waited.