i want to do my best bud. i think hes gay but how do we get into the sex mode do i just touch his hand and see how he responds or what? and if we do hav sex how do u do it with a guy?
2006-07-07 12:04:27 · 12 answers · asked by sneedman15 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't touch your friend's hand (or anything else) until you're sure he wants you to.
The best thing is to do is ask your friend how he feels about man-to-man sex. Find out how he feels about homosexuality, discuss gay issues or a gay themed movie. If he responds in a negative way drop the subject. If his reactions are neutral or should he show some interest, then you can tell your friend that you are curious about it and suggest some experimentation.
Sex between men is not that much different than sex between a man and a woman. There's kissing and cuddling, foreplay; fondling, caressing and kissing sensitive (erogenous) areas. And sexual intercourse; frottage, mutual masturbation, mutual oral, or anal. Discuss with your friend how far you both want to go before you start. Also, agree on a signal or word that means "stop".
Experimentation is fine. Try to give each other pleasure; focus on what turns your partner on and what makes him feel good. You may or may not like gay sex but you won't know for sure unless you try. Keep an open mind and don't worry about defining your sexuality, just have fun with the experience.
2006-07-07 18:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by allankw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With sex, you do what feels good. That's the same even if it is two guys. If you are not sure about your bud, well you might just tell him about yourself first. See how he responds to that. With luck he will be open to having a gay friend. If you're really fortunate you'll have a gay friend who's interested in a bit more.
2006-07-07 19:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to confirm for sure if he is gay or not. I doubt he will tell you straight out, but maybe if you tell him about yourself first he might be more forward with you. And if it does turn out he is gay, sex is not the immediate result. maybe do some exploring together first, hand jobs, bj's before you do anything too serious
2006-07-08 01:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, there is more to life then sex. You can't just say you want to "do" someone and try to. Take a cold shower, then start thinking. A friendship, a realtionship, then something sexual. You don't even know if he is gay or not, don't try to turn someone cause it will not work and plays into a bad sterotype.
2006-07-07 19:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on his personality and yours. Some people respond better to direct action, other people like to be "romanced" or flirted with, and other people (even gay ones) just respond with violence. You could always just tell him that you're gay and see what happens (assuming you haven't already told him). If you have told him, and he has yet to express an interest, it's time to just shrug and move on.
2006-07-07 19:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by Speedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like youa re really ready to have sex yet. Especially if you don't relaly know 'how to' - - maybe you could just stick to making out - - and surely you klnow how to do that - just kiss and hug and hold each other....let the sex develope over time...
2006-07-14 09:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should not touch him first
you should find out his preferences first then let him know your preferences (towards guys dat is) then go on to do those sexual stuff..
it would freak him out if he wasnt gay n you touched him in that way..you might end up loseing him as a frn..
2006-07-07 22:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by acnemycin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will come naturally, just learn to be gay and if he's gay he will teach you all you need to know, go for it
2006-07-07 20:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by man of ape 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out is he is straight first
DO NOT DO SOMETHING LIKE TOUCH OR FLIRT WITH HIM TO GET A RESPONSE
i would puch a gay person if they did that to me
just ask them flat out and if they say no, THE ANSWER IS NO
2006-07-07 19:36:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is sooo much to tell you about this. but it sounds like you are to young to be experiencing this kind of stuff yet. just worry about being Friends for right now.
2006-07-07 19:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Vell g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋