family&relationships
2006-07-07 11:43:46 · 38 answers · asked by babablucka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your relationship is based on sexual things, you don't have much of a relationship. Ask yourself if this person is really into you or just into what you used to do.
2006-07-07 11:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ben J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes on in the bed room is always a compromise.
If you are not willing to do 'that' anymore, see if there is something else that you can agree upon to placate him.
I'd need more gory details to give a better answer... So I guess I'll just go with the generic answers...
Also be honest with yourself... if it is a complex issue, analyze what has changed or is different that has changed things.
From my point of view, it can be very frustrating when you used to get something you like... and now you don't... Why the change?!?!?!! But personally I would be more then happy with alternatives if they were offered.
2006-07-07 11:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dump someone everytime they are being unfair on a particular matter then you will live a sad, lonely life. Instead, talk it over with him first, tell him how you feel and ask him if he would really want you to do those things even though it makes you unhappy.
If he's still mad and doesn't seem to care about your feelings then maybe it is time to dump him.
2006-07-07 11:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by mr2demon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to stop doing something with a partner once you've started. My advice would be to look into some new things that you haven't tried before that may be more appealing to you. Caution you boyfriend that this is just experimentation ... something you hope you both enjoy but not to expect that you'll necessarily do it again.
2006-07-07 11:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to what makes you comfortable. Remember at the end of the day you have to look at yourself in the mirror and know that you took care of your self respect. You take care of you. There are many guys but only one you.
2006-07-07 12:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him RIGHT NOW
Why compromise who YOU are, FOREVER, for some guy that most likely will be GONE in 6 months???
You will just go down a slippery slope of being less and less of who you are in order to please, basically a complete stranger.
A REAL man will NEVER ask a woman to do something that she doesn't wish to do.
2006-07-07 11:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by dave_martin_7777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, don't walk, but run!!! If he's mad because you won't fulfill his sexual desires, that absolutely shows that he's more interested in getting off than making you happy. He's more concerned about himself and not you - that's called lust. No person should stay in that kind of situation.
2006-07-07 11:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by pharcydetrip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your body, stick up for yourself. If you don't want to do something then don't do it. Maybe if it is something you used to do all the time an explanation of why might be nice. But ultimately it is your decision. And your no should ALWAYS mean no.
2006-07-07 11:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like someone just turned 25. u better keep it up b 4 he upgrades to a younger chic that still does the stuff u dont wanna
2006-07-07 11:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to him why you don't want to do these things anymore. If he is reasonable and willing to listen you should be able to overcome this, if not you might have to dump him. No one should have to do anything sexual they are not comfortable with.
2006-07-07 11:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by All I Hear Is Blah Blah Blah... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋