shame on you...just imagine that those ladies( If you even wanna call them that) are your sisters or moms and that other guys were looking at them. You wouldn't want that would you?
2006-07-07 11:42:40
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answered by simpleplan0013 5
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Notice all the females are saying "Just don't go there, man." while all the males are answering..."Give up and give in." Its like with anything else. Addictions can draw you to a place you don't want to go and keep you there longer than you ever intended to be. Just realize that the thrill and excitement you experience as your pulse starts pounding and you feel anxious and edgy about what you're going to see..its all a chemical facade in your brain. The chemical is real...it creates the anticipation, fooling you into believing what you are experiencing is a real encounter..but unlike a real encounter..once the gratification is met..the empty feeling is all you are left with. So what do you do? Make it as difficult to access as possible...keep your computer out in an area where others can see what you are viewing or get rid of it altogether at least for a bit. Make a contract with yourself. Stay busy, work sleep, stay on a schedule and use the time that you would be on the net doing something healthy and good for yourself. Go six weeks without any "inappropriate pics" then see how you feel. Also it helps to have a working relationship (marriage preferrably) and also to hold yourself accountable to God as you offend Him by decaying your mind and grieving the spirit by looking at this filth..even the gentlist versions of it. Lifes too short and you are cheating yourself out of perhaps finding gratification with a warm, live human being. We decide our own fanatsies and they can be given up just as easily as we form them. I know..I've done it with my own life. Don't think women can't be tempted by porn. Love in Christ, ~J~ <><
2006-07-07 11:54:17
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answered by Anonymous
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What's "inappropriate?" The definition for that differs with everybody...
Guys are very easily stimulated visually -- that's why so many porn sites exist in the first place, 'cause guys find it very pleasurable to look at pictures of women without clothes on. Personally I see nothing wrong with that. When you start getting into bondage, fetishes, teens, etc. -- many of which require unwilling participation on the part of the girl involved -- then that's a different story.
How to not look at them? Don't! If you don't have the self-control to just not look, then there's not much a piece of software that tries to block them can do. There are always things you can do to get around that stuff. Just exercise a little personal responsibility and self control -- if you think you shouldn't look at something, don't!
2006-07-07 11:45:15
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answered by Anonymous
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It is impossible, I am a chick and I look at inappropriate pictures all day long on the net, it is an addiction like smoking or alcoholism.
2006-07-07 11:41:04
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answered by Beauty&Brains 4
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Dude, I have been around the world many times. I have had more great jobs than you can shake a stick at. I am married to a wonderful wife and have two beautiful well behaved babies. I have time, money, health, good family, a red convertible, and a big big house. But you know, all that is so incomprehensibly worthless in comparison to Jesus Christ. Don't go to a church. No need to talk to a priest. Tell the Mormons to stop ringing your doorbell. Dude, just pray like you are talking to a friend. It helped me. And I am 100% convinced He can help you to. Believe, my friend. Believe. The Lord is with you; are with Him? The porn WILL disappear if you pray confidently and honestly- The Sandy Beach Bum
2006-07-07 11:42:53
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answered by The Sandy Beach Bum 2
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Their's a filter put out by the American Family Association. It might be called Net Angel or something like that. It's pretty solid. You load that thing on your computer and you won't even be able to look SI's swimsuit page, let along any kind of porno.
2006-07-07 11:42:06
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answered by pharcydetrip 2
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You be mature, responsible and accountable and that means having self control too. Simple as that. No one if forcing your fingers to find the porn sites, are they? If you've got a problem, best to seek help, that is a serious addiction just like drug or alcohol addiction.
2006-07-07 11:44:13
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answered by MadforMAC 7
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Married: Put the PC in the bedroom and only use it when your wife is with you. SHE will stop you!
Single: Become gay. Then it will not matter. :-)
Divorced: Only look at pictures of your ex. That will lead to the "single" solution.
Widowed: Go ahead, you need something to occupy your time.
2006-07-07 11:45:50
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answered by lbfm4me 3
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Scare yourself. Read reports of all the bad things that have happened to guys in your situation and have a conversation with yourself about which path you wish to consciously choose.
2006-07-07 11:41:12
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answered by Anonymous
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you can't. All you can do is end the session, delete the email, close the window, etc...sooner or later it will be there...
now if you are talking about self discipline? dunno, wish i had an answer... i'll go try not to look at internet porn right now...actually...lol.
Seriously? Get a girlfreind... Real life is so much more interesting
than pixelated facsimiles
2006-07-07 11:41:24
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answered by kucitizenx 4
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You can flog yourself as punishment.
Hell, you could probably even sell the pics online.
HOT MOM, why do women think men have the same sex drive???
Lady it's TEN times stronger and it's mostly VISUAL!
LOL
2006-07-07 11:42:08
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answered by dave_martin_7777 3
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