One night me and my girlfriend who is one year younger then me was making out and she put her hands down my pants.I liked it and everything but her and I started rubbing each other and had sex.Now I'm scared as hell!!!.Because she told me that usually you have to be at least 15yrs old to fertilize but then my cousin said at the age of 12 you start to produce sperm.
2006-07-07 11:36:39 · 34 answers · asked by Scared!?!? 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yes she could get pregnant!!!!!
2006-07-07 11:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ginnykitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you're in a real pickle. To answer your question - yes, she can get pregnant at this time, and if both of you are 13, its actually pretty likely that she will. Don't bother trying to count the time since her last period to see whether you're "safe" - it won't change the odds that she is pregnant any more than staring at the tops of your shoes. Instead, have your girlfriend go to your local clinic/pharmacy/planned parenthood center to recieve emergency contraception pills (a.k.a. the morning-after pill) as soon as it is reasonably possible to do so (that is, the moment you read this message, pick up your phone and call her and have her schedule it immediately). If administered within 72 hours, this will reduce the chances of her getting pregnant by some 75-80%. Alternatively, if you want to be absolutely sure, you can discuss the possiblity of having her get an IUD (intrauterane device), which is not only 98-99% effective as emergency contraception but also functions as a long-term birth control method - however, this is considerably more expensive and may not even be available in your area. I highly recommend going to your local planned parenthood, as they will not only be able to provide morning-after pills, but will also be able to discuss with you and your girlfriend plans for long-term birth control methods (including the aforementioned IUD), as well as possible testing for sexually transmitted diseases (yeah, I know you don't want to think about it, but it's generally better to find out now that you have hepatitis, herpes, human papillomavirus, or HIV than after you've transmitted any of the aforementioned diseases to a dozen other people).
To find the planned parenthood center nearest you, visit:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/files/portal/healthservices/findhealthcenter/main.xml or call 1-800-230-PLAN
2006-07-07 13:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by Pascal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down and take a deep breath. You really need to talk with an adult about your concerns. Your GF could get pregnant for SURE. You two need to use a condom if you really feel that you are ready to share physical contact with one another. You have to truly understand what sex in tails and know that its not for pure pleasure. Sex means much more. I don't know you or your GF but I know that many teens regret stepping past the making out stage. There are plenty of things you two can do to experiment with one another. i know you are curious but know that you could make a mistake and those you can't take back. Good luck and take it slow.
2006-07-07 11:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by gulalisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didnt you use a condom or pull out when u were about to ***? Yes ur girlfriend could get pregnant and there is always a chance she might not be. But u both should be scared. I hope for the best for both of u. I hope that you both have learned from this experience.
2006-07-07 11:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by paradiseglf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would feel good, but you must protect yourself because sperm travels. You are too young for those troubles of having a child. Save that for a time when you have a secure career and you are totally in love. Its a big responsilbity. My son is 13 and I know that the hormones are raging. But be smart!!!
2006-07-07 12:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by gasncal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK the question here did you come?
did the white liquid stuff come out
this depends on your personal physical maturity I´ll advice go masturbate and if you come (did it hurt when you come?) you are fertile.
also check if the girl was in her fertile period.
One way or another now you are sexually active so start taking all the precautions needed, like start carrying condoms and start acting more responsible
2006-07-07 13:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by michael_gdl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not uncommon for guys and girls to begin maturing at this age. If you are truly concern about your girlfriend then suggest that she take all the precautions to see if she is. Sometimes ignorance is no bliss and the party often comes out wounded more. But if you are worried about your own *** then sit back and ask yourself this ?. Why.
2006-07-07 11:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by In Love With Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can get her pregnant. Do they not teach you about condoms, even if you are stupid enough to have sex at that age. Where are your parents do they not keep an eye on you at all.
2006-07-07 11:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible. Guys and girls usually go through puberty is around grade 6-8. That is why they teach you about sex-ed in grade 5. And girls start puberty before the guys start
2006-07-07 16:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being stupid and don't have sex! The truth is she might be pregnant and she might not. Chances are she isn't but she is going to have to take a pregnacy test if she misses her period.
2006-07-07 11:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't use protection, chances are very high she can get pregnant. You are very much so producing sperm, and she is very much so fertiling. BE CAREFUL! You are only KIDS! MY GOD! It saddens me to see young kids like you, so curious and ignornant about sex. LIVE LIFE!
2006-07-07 11:40:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋