My ex girlfriend and I are still friends. We have been split for about a year but she calls me everyday ! I am worried she has the wrong idea. I only pick up the phone when I've missed about 5 of her calls. Wut should I do?
2006-07-07 11:17:40 · 27 answers · asked by kutless1023 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
XXXXXXXXXXXX Tell her it's been nice but you aren't interested in her anymore and to loose your number. XXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-21 11:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you have been split for a year, but she still hopes you'll get together.
It's nice if you can be friends, but friends don't usually call each other every day.
Try taking the initiative, and calling her for a change. Then direct the conversation to how you feel about getting such frequent calls from her. Do you have a new girlfriend? If so, you can talk about that, or ask if she has a new boyfriend, and congratulate her for moving on in your relationship.
It's a tough situation, and hard to do without hurting someone's feelings, but the longer you let it go on, the harder it will be.
Good luck!
2006-07-21 19:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously in a state of mind that there is still hope for you to get back together. Make her see (not in an evil sort of way by making out with a new girlfriend in front of her and doing all the other couple stuff) that it's over and your only friends. Show her that you do care for her as a friend and nothing more. Hang out with the rest of your friends and don't make her see things that she could take as a 'I still love you, can we start over?' That is probably what is making her think this.
2006-07-21 02:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know while you enjoy talking with her from time to time that you want to make sure she is perfectly aware that you are not looking for any romantic involvement with her. Also, if you are seeing someone else I would mention that fact too; not the specifics (as it's really none of her business), but I would mention that to her, and then even inquire as to whether she's seeing someone also. Tell her that you don't want to disrespect her or your girlfriend and that you're beginning to feel a little uncomfortable with daily phone calls as you feel they are basically inappropriate...
2006-07-21 19:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just tell her what you feel about the calling everyday and maybe she is calling a lot of times because she likes you because if she didn't like you why is she calling you and talking to you so just tell her the truth and try to not hurt her feeling.I hope my helped you a little bit.
~Mia
2006-07-07 19:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she either likes you or she just is afraid of losing you completely. she already lost you as a boyfriend, and she doesn't want to lose you as a friend. tell her that you still want to be friends so she doesn't get upset, but let her know that it's annoying for her to call that much. Could she be insecure w/o u? Are you trying to pull away too hard and too fast? ask yourself those questions. she just needs someone and she thinks your the ideal person.
2006-07-07 18:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get someone new you are going to need to drop her the reason she calls so much is because she wants you back not because she wants to be a friend you are giving her the wrong idea by still talking to her dont call her dont text her dont go and see her leave her along maybe then she will get the idea
2006-07-07 18:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by Katie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 her and tell her that you hope that you are not misleading her because you dont wanna go back with her. and if she still calls, well stop picking up!! or make a girl pick up your fone and tell her that you are in the shower :) mean but effective
2006-07-21 14:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by dark_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her and make it clear that you are just friends. Tell her that you are moving on with your life and still want her as a friend.Tell her that you would still like to talk to her, just not as often.
2006-07-07 18:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to leave you alone for a while and that you just want to be friends.
if that doesnt work stop picking up the phone
2006-07-10 18:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by lambchops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she still has feelings for you. I would ignore her calls and then she will get the message.
2006-07-21 19:41:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋