i had an intercourse with my girlfriend before 5 days. and i m not sure weather or not the sperms has gone in or not. and i m very confused. i think so some of my sperms went in. now my girl friend is scared if her parents will know about this they will be very embarced. so i want to know if there is any way to waste her pregnancy in home. because it is impossible for her to go out from home. plz help me......
2006-07-07 10:47:36 · 35 answers · asked by anam.fsl88 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You can always let someone to adopt your child instead of abortion. There are plenty of people on earth wanting to have a baby !!!!!!
2006-07-07 10:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by purplemollies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waste? I don't understand that term,...but it sure has a negative hint...Yeah,...it's too late for the pills after intercourse. Sperms survive only for 72 hours inside the woman's body. I hope she isn't pregnant, because clearly the baby was not planned. All babies should be wanted before conception...and at least the moment the parents find out about the pregnancy. If I'm not mistaken there's even a pregnancy test now that you can use as soon as possible. Good luck to you guys. Relax will ya? A baby isn't that bad...and nowadays most people are never really ready for one.
2006-07-21 09:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her parents about it first. If anything they'd know what is best to do. I know you both don't want to do that and embarass them, but that won't happen. First they'll help you see if she is actually pregnant or not. If she isn't then you dodge a very big bullet. If she is then you have a long nine months ahead of you and descions to make like put the baby up for adoption or raise it. However trying to abort the baby by means of home, isn't safe for your girlfriend at all. Something terribly wrong can happen (very big chance there because neither of you would know what you're doing) and then people WOULD know, so the best thing to do, is talk with your parents and hers.
2006-07-21 06:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both so immature for sex. 1st of all you don't know if she's pregnant. She must have a test. A blood test will show results already. There is no such simple way of stopping the pregnancy, and never do anything at home anyway, because this would be very dangerous for her life. Finally, use a condom always, throughout sex (she can get pregmnant even before ejaculation) or better yet don't have sex, you are not ready!
2006-07-07 10:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you even ask her if that's what she wants? Anything that you would do at home is too dangerous. You also don't know if she is even pregnant! Wait till she is supposed to have her period and have her take a pregnancy test. If she doesn't get her period or get's a positive test result then you guys can worry! Don't be an idiot and risk your girlfriends life, if she finds out she is pregnant, let her decide what to do and be supportive but no matter what, don't try to get rid of the baby at home!!! That is how some people die.
2006-07-07 10:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Tact is highly overrated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are talking about a human life like it is nothing but "waste." That is sick and disturbing. You do not need to be having sex - seriously. Sex is a HUGE responsibility that you are clearly not ready for. When you ARE ready to have sex you need to be responsible to care for a child in case the responsibility arises. If you think you are ready for sex you need to use birth control AND condoms. That way you are protected (not fully protected - nothing is 100 % except abstinence) from STD's and pregnancy.
And about your question about aborting a pregnancy in the early stages. There is the morning after pill and abortion. Both are killing a human life and can harm the female having the procedure done, both physically and mentally.
Please never have sex again until you are responsible enough to deal with the stress and chances sex can throw at you.
2006-07-16 14:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her go to her local Planned Parenthood
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/
They have a pill called the morning after pill. I don't know if 5 days is too late or not.
While she is there, they can give her Birth Control Pills, so this won't be a scare anymore.
Or Please use another source of protection next time.
Tell her that condoms are not only proven to prevent STDs and pregnancies, but studies have shown that it can help prevent Cervical Cancer.
BTW- Planned parenthood is confidential.
Good luck!
2006-07-07 10:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by sha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the F%$# is your deal dude? How does a dumazz like you even figure out where to put that little bug sticker? You are not grown up enough to handle the English language and you doing stupid crap like that? How about wasting your own life and leave the girl and baby alone?
2006-07-17 17:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand completely. I think your girlfriend needs to go and get a pregnancy test. I think if things are so complicated have you not another girlfriend who will go for you as all you need is some wee.They dont check whos wee belongs to who. To waste a pregnancy is to end it?? Then when you have your results then you worry about the next stage. if she is pregnant plez b there for her.
2006-07-21 13:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by helen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try to get rid of the pregnancy at home then it could cause some major medical problems like she will not be able to have kids later or she will bleed probably to death.
2006-07-21 12:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond Freak :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry bud your S.O.L. Don't do anything rash though like trying to beat the s**t out of her. Tell someone. You made a mistake. I know its not an easy pill to swallow. Maybe her parents will get her an abortion. You should also think about her needs. Its tougher on a woman cause she is the one who has to carry it.
2006-07-20 08:14:28 · answer #11 · answered by kay11782 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋