a week ago he wrote me a txt telling me he was so happy that we were finally over and that he is happy with his new g/f. Then he went on about how he was upset we were not friends at first and now he is over it. then today he calls me, a week after his rude txt, and asks me that if anyone calls looking for him, that his phone is acting up and to keep trying his number, i am so confused. Is that his way of talking to me or do u think that he is telling the truth, because i never responded to his txt or email b/c i was so hurt by all the mean things he said. i am confused please tell me what this means!
2006-07-07 10:38:31 · 29 answers · asked by Tiffany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For whatever reason he happened to pull outta his *** at the moment, he decided to drop you a line to mess with your head.
He's wondering what your doing and hoping you'll call him back and start up a conversation. If he's happy then wonderful! But honestly when someone is truly happy they are not testing their ex to let them know how great their life is going because if it was going that good they wouldn't be thinking about the past.
Let this one get away Hun. There are so many fish in the sea.
2006-07-07 10:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by ~brigit~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is any hidden message there. I think he just wanted to get some sort of reaction from you. Since you didn't respond, I think you should just move on. Obviously he still has unresolved issues behind your relationship, otherwise he would not have felt the need to text you and tell you that he was happy with his new g/f. So move on and put him on the back burner and let him work out his own issues. Oh yeah there is one text that is necessary for you to send him. Tell him it isn't your fault he is to cheap to get his phone fixed, and that you are not a personal messaging service. Tell him anyone calling looking for him will be told that he is cheap and unable to get his phone fixed and that they should try his phone number when he wins the lottery. :)
2006-07-07 10:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tanya (who spoke back earlier me) is sweet. Lose this guy. he's non-commital, can't save a lady friend, is lonely, desires someone to hit on, and figures you'd be straight forward. If he become truly into you, he doesn't have lied about his reason behind desirous to visit. He would have advised you he has matured (grown up finally) and realizes he made an enormous mistake by using leaving you (out of shock of dedication). yet he did not say that. he's in simple terms messing with you to have a straight forward sexual escapade. you'd be damage. do not enable him do this to you back. the right guy for you is accessible someplace, and also you'll understand it once you meet him. do not enable this looser to distract you from searching the right one for you.
2016-10-14 05:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he called because he wants to make sure he keeps in touch with you, for some definitely-important reason.
He may be testing you... to see if you're really over him or not, because... if you're willing to continue communicating with him, or if you do what he asked, then he'll know you still have feelings of love and/or friendship for him.
He may be thinking about trying to get back together with you... sooner or later.
It's quite possible, he may be thinking that if things don't work out with his new g/f, he would still have a chance to get back with you, because you still care for him>>> keep you on his string... keep you hanging on & waiting around till he sees if it'll work with the new g/f or not.
2006-07-07 11:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he was trying to hear your voice. Don't read into it but remember that anger comes from hurt. Don't contact him let him contact you. He needs to tell you he is sorry for what he did. If he calls again let him know that was a very mean and hateful thing he did. Then let him come to you to say he is sorry and if he doesn't don't have anything to do with him.
Good Luck!
2006-07-07 10:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both still have feelings for each other.
He is trying to see if your still interested in him by telling you his phone is acting up. What do most people do when their phone acts up? They go get it fixed. Rarely do they call their ex's and let them know.
Secondly, you obviously still care about him because your asking this question. The only confusion is your mixed feelings for him.
2006-07-07 10:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex sounds like an inconsiderate jerk, my guess is he is so in to himself, that he really doesn't have any friends and you just happen to be the last person who would do anything for him so he falling back on that. He won't change, & you deserve a lot better. If you start talking to him again you are just setting yourself up to get hurt all over again. There are guys out there who will treat you better, just move on.
2006-07-07 10:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by Carl M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now this is what is happening....
-He is trying to make you feel bad by showing that he is happy with his new gf and you couldn't make him happy. So don't let him keep the upper hand. Do this, tell him you are really happy that he is enjoying his life....You are also happy that you broke up with him....now dating (just make it up) guy...tell good features abt him...tell him what you did over the weekend...anything that shows him that you are enjoying your life...this will give you the upper hand....
-secondly he is calling to make sure that you are his "backup"....Incase he is not happy with his new gf....he can get you back when he needs you....
so respond to him that, "I'm enjoying my life and don't believe in friends after break-up. I wish you good luck with your new gf and hope she is the one. So don't contact me after this email...I want to move on. My bf doesn't like me have friendship with my ex-bf...so this good bye"
I hope this will solve your issue
2006-07-07 10:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he called just to see if you would talk to him.You did not respond to mean txt and e-mail...so,he got confused.He was thinking "hmmm...Maybe she is over me too..maybe I better come up with a good reason to call her so I can find out.." I suggest asking him NOT to call you anymore...if he is sooo happy with new gf.Tell him to call her...Good Luck!
2006-07-07 10:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by mrssmokestack003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is confused to. Just ask him if you want to know. If your still hurt by what he said don't bother, just forget about him. Get on with getting over him.
2006-07-07 10:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋