THere is a man I want to be a submissive for. He already has one. Should I seek another dominate?

Answer 1

Ignore the trolls. I would suggest a two-step course of action. First, ask yourself if you would want to be in a relationship where there is another submissive involved. Remember that you would be sharing the same Dominant, and that he might not treat you equally or fairly given the demands of him.

If you can agree to this situation, then you move on to the second step, which is asking him to be your Dominant. At that point, you have passed the decision over to him. You shouldn't flood him with arguments for why he should accept you, but you should be ready to answer any questions that he has. If he does agree, then you know your answer.

However, if neither of the above happen, then you have to ask yourself if you are looking for someone to be submissive to or just looking to be submissive. By that, which is the driving force behind your intent. I would suggest that if the latter is your answer that you re-examine your line of thought, because just looking to be someone's submissive just to be submissive is a recipe for future trouble.

My advice is that you look for the person first and foremost. You can limit your search to Dominants without going to the other option. Hopefully you'll find what you are looking for.

Answer 2

No, I think you may need self esteem counseling though. Find a man who wants to be your equal. Than take turns plating roles.

Answer 3

ask him he might want to dominate 2 people. if not what have you lost by asking?

Answer 4

Make the choice that will lead to you being satisfied. It's all about you.

Answer 5

Probably.

Answer 6

Nobody cares about your sick self.