Pray that I receive Guidance and Patients?

Question

Right now I am in tears because i just broke off a relationship with my sons father because he was not doing his part as a man should be i believe in GOD with all my heart but things just have been so hard lately i had my son prematurely i wasn't able to go back to school this semester and now i am dependent on a man who is so self center i am confused i am not sure which direction GOD wants me to please pray that i receive guidance and patient after i broke up with him he chose not to pay the bills for this month i haven't worked because my son needs around the clock care and i just do not understand how someone who love you so much could treat you like this

Answer 1

This is the start of a change for the better. It always begins rough. Give it time keep plugging ahead. what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. Good Luck to you.

Answer 2

Nothing is more stressful than having problems in a relationship. Especially if the relationship is between you and someone you live with on a daily basis. The pain of it is inescapable.
All the problems your having in your relationship is probably because someone has a hard heart. One of the best ways to soften a hard heart is through praise.
When you focus your attention on God and welcome His presence into your soul and life through your praise, your heart will surely become more like Him. Your whole being will be filled with love because you are worshiping the God of love. You become what you are worshiping, ( God).
When you give all you have in praise and worship you will release control over any other relationship. Lifting up your heart, hands, voice, soul, and mind up to the Lord in love, it's impossible to hang onto things and people around us. That's because " true love " creates an environment of freedom and release, not control. Control demands all things outside of love without the " heart " of love.
Sweetie, you can't control your son's father's heart, but you can control your own. When you worship God, the love in your heart increases and the hardness and bitterness will melt away. Also, when your own heart is full of love, it can soften another's heart to you.
God is in the business of changing hearts if you give Him the chance. When you praise and worship Him and appreciate all that He is, and give thanks and be grateful to Him for all that He has done for you in your life, and tell Him how much you love Him, Sweetie, you will open up doors through wich more of His love pours into your heart. All that love He gives you in return will spill onto everyone you come in contact with, including your son's father.
The best relationships are rooted in God's love. Also, any relationship improves when at least one of the people involved develops a attitude of praise and worship toward God in their hearts. The reason for that is because when you worship God, you are communicating with Him, connecting with Him, and opening up the doors through which His love flows. When His love enters into the life of two people, the relationship is transformed. God's love overflows us by the power of His Spirit and gives us peace and enables us to have restored relationships.
Honey, your whole family, your man, your son, all will respond to a home filled with praise and worship, plus your relationship will be strengthened.
Take the time and focus on the Lord, and tell Him what you appreciate about Him. You will establish His position in your heart as top priority, thus allowing His Spirit to be poured into you and He will pour through you into your relationships.
If your relationship is important to you, pray for your man and your relationship asking God to restore it. Thank Him for creating your family and allowing them to be part of your life. Hand them over to the Lord and let go of the want to fix the relationship yourself. Honey, as you continue to do this, you will begin to see things from God's perspective and your man's as well.
Allow the Lord to work it out for you, your job is to keep praising and worshiping Him to keep the flow of His love for you pour through you every day.
God's blessing be with you as you walk toward his righteousness, all will be made right for you.