What shall I do to help me feel better about sleeping with my boyfriend?

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Answer 1

XXXXXXXXXI'm wondering why you feel like you do in the first place. I need more info. XXXXXXXXXXX

Answer 2

if you are feeling unhappy about sleeping with him, you need to try and think why this is. although you may not actually be able to find an apparent reason.
if you can you should talk to him and let him know your feelings & concerns. if you dont it will continue to get worse.
you should not just put up with it, or give in under pressure, as it will begin to really bring you down and end up wrecking the rship.

there may be a much bigger underlying problem which you need to address.

trust me one day you will sleep with someone when it does feel 100% right and it's a completely different experience, totally magical....cant describe to you how amazing it is when it's right.

hope you work out your concerns.

Answer 3

I'm going to take a stab in the dark.... Sounds like you feel forced into sleeping with him...

Want to feel better? Tell him you don't want to. If he complains, he's probably just using you for the sex.

The only way to feel better is to stand up for what you believe. If he turns you away because of it, you're better off without him. And let your friends or parents know.

Answer 4

Think in your thought, about how much you like this guy, describe him, and think about how much good things he had done for you. It should make you feel better about how much you like this guy, and why you are sleeping with him. Also think about what you two might do in the future.

If you know you are just not ready for it, then tell him in a gentle way, he'll understand. If you are not ready, and you keep having sex with him, it's just gonna bottle up inside and you'll keep thinking, why am I doing this? And soon, you'll do something wrong and who knows? there's gonna be trouble.

Answer 5

Not sure i understand the question. Do you feel guilty about it? Are you worried about the consequences?

If you had unprotected sex then you might have to take some steps to make sure you aren't pregnant or have an STD. If there are no concerns there, and you just wish you hadn't done it, then i'm afraid you just have to put it down to experience and know that you have learned from it.

Answer 6

If you don't feel good about sleeping with your boyfriend then you shouldn't be sleeping with your boyfriend. You should ask yourself why you feel the way you do. What's making you feel bad.

Answer 7

I wouldn't. If you don't feel right about doing it, don't. Also, it is best to wait until after marriage b/c if by some chance you get pregnant out of wedlock, there are many problems you will and may face. Do what the bible says.

Answer 8

Why do you feel bad? Are you too young or is it a religious thing?

No matter what... if you feel bad or awkward about sleeping with your boyfriend, there isn't anything that is going to force you to feel comfortable with it.

Answer 9

oh dear..why do you feel so bad about it? Are you feeling guilty about something or was it not how you expected? you need to really get to the core of what eactly you feel. are you just feeling clingy? to feel wierd like this is quite normal cos it does change things between you. you still have the right to say 'no' whenever you want you know!

Answer 10

If you dont feel good about sleeping with him then you shouldn't be doing it. There is nothing you can do to force feeling good about it. Just stop until your ready and feel like it.

Answer 11

If you are not married with him then I don't think that is a good thing to do. But you can always make it successful, get married with him and start your new life with him. When you'll see that you are being with him with everyone's blessings then you'll see how happy you feel inside. Good luck, I hope you two will be married soon.