Little sister. The only person you need to worry about is yourself. How do YOU feel about YOU? You need to accept yourself. Forget what everybody else thinks.
These kids that bother you...do they buy your lunch? Do they buy your clothes? Do they take your tests for you? Do they make your good grades for you? Do they help you study? Do they help your parents pay rent? Do they do your chores at home? Do they take you to and from school everyday? HECK NO!!!!!
These kids have absolutly nothing to do with you. Nothing. Kids that pick on other kids do it because they don't like themselves very much and they need to belittle someone else to make themselves feel better. Kids that pick on other kids are jelous of the kid being bullied. They feel like you've got something that they don't and they're agry at themselves about it and they take it out on you.
I know. I used to get joked on, cracked on all the time when I was in middle school and the first part of high school. I got called ugly and that I was'nt worth anything and that nobody wanted me and I was too skinny and i did'nt have any boobs.......It really hurt my feelings because I wanted so much to be liked. I wanted so much to be one of the popular kids. It was'nt untill I got older that I realized that all those popular kids ( especially the girls ) were just being little punks.
Alot of those same girls ended up getting knocked up at 14-15 years old and ruining their lives. The rest of them got into drugs and became crack heads. The boys that messed with me turned out getthing std's from the popular girls because they slept around all the time and the other half of them went to jail for various reasons.
If I knew then what I know now....I would'nt care about what anybody said about me because they don't matter. Only I mattered. And guess what. You're the only one that matters in your life.
Love yourself. Respect yourself. And only do things that are good for you. Pay more attention to your studies. Leave the punk boys alone ( because that's what they are...punk a** boys ). Do things that make you happy and take care of yourself.
Those kids don't matter ok. You are special. You are wonderful. You're smart, capable, intellegent and fabulous. You are somebody. Beilive that and own it little one. You are the bomb. You don't really want to associate with anyone who can't see that.
Best of luck to you.
2006-07-07 10:33:32
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answered by ilah23 3
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Oof!
First an introduction, the answer comes later. You're not your body, but something much higher and more beautiful than that. You're body is a tool, given to you to live a life on earth. Like a carpenter has a hammer to work with, you got your body. The body loves you so incredibly much, it does anything you want by just wishing it. Because of this we start believing that we ARE this body, but that's a mistake.
Second the answer. I hope you fell better already (?). You got your body the way that's best suitable for you to do the job. Why you don't know yet, and I cann't answer that either, but you'll learn during life. It's not easy, it takes time,but one day you will get it. So taking into account the opinion of others resulting in changing your body is some kind of destructive force for your well being on earth.
Greek Oracle.
PS: I know this is heavy stuff, and I had problems posting it, since you might be too young to understand. Even so, I did post it, since it might be of help to others.
PPS: I was always teased for heaving big ears, and although tempted to change it, I never did and I feel great about it.
2006-07-07 10:16:33
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answered by Greek Oracle 4
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That's exactly it. Why get all depressed over someone else's opinion of you. If you let their insults undermine your self-esteem then you are just going to be miserable. Just be happy with yourself. If you feel something needs to be changed about you and it is harmless (wear some make up or lose 5 pounds) then do it - if it makes you feel better about yourself. Also find something positive about yourself and enhance it. If you have a good voice, try out for the school chorus. If you like to write, do it and do it as best as you can. But don't do these things because others want you to.
2006-07-07 10:15:00
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answered by AlongthePemi 6
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he's a guy and he needs to coach he cares. i might circulate away the region on my own thoroughly - if he does something to purpose and make you adult males celebration, and that i'm not in user-friendly terms speaking approximately asking you out then you certainly'll understand he cares adequate to make the attempt to get you. If all he does is asks you out - possibly not even that - then he does not care adequate, and is as your chum thinks, merely attempting to get a woman for the sake of it. in case you like him yet he hasn't accomplished something, supply him an ultimatum. tell him he has to do a particular factor, ie, take you to ________ (everywhere that's which you rather opt to circulate/do, this is going to likely be a particular factor!). If he is going to the attempt then you certainly understand he cares.
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answered by defour 3
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The only thing that matters is what YOU think. Do you think your a good person? Skinny? Fat?
2006-07-07 11:03:16
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answered by daydreambeliever0000 4
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Becuase they are probably just jelious of you because you have the body they want so they will call you to fat or to skinny becuase the are insucure. Just ignore them and don't sink to there level and start calling them names too. Just remember you are better then them and ingnore them.
2006-07-07 09:55:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Some people say things just to be mean or in control. some people need to put others down to feel good about themselves because they are so insecure. In the end you only have to answer to yourself and your God ( if you believe in one)
2006-07-07 10:01:19
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answered by jachooz 6
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just be happy with yourself
if you try to change for someone then another person will come along and tell you to cange what you already changed...
if that makes any sence at all.
2006-07-07 11:58:51
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answered by =] 1
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b/c they are usually just jealous and they want to start stuff with you and make poeple mad at start stuff basically
2006-07-07 10:01:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Because you can be what you want
2006-07-07 12:23:58
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answered by ~Baby~Girl~ 2
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