If you knew your boy/girl friend was cheating on you, but he/she didn't know that you knew, what would you do?

Question

would you just dump him/her? cry about it? confront? try and talk it out? or revenge? explain...

Answer 1

Revenge all the way. Here is what I did.

I found out that my girlfriend of over 3 years had been cheating with me with her best friend's boyfriend from a pretty reliable source, him! She was away at college at the time I found out. I invited her to a big event I was going to be attending. For her, this entailed commuting 3 hours home, buying a dress, having her hair, nails and make-up done. She easily dropped a few hundred dollars, probably more on this. I talked to her that morning and told her to give me a call when she was ready for me to pick her up.

When she called, I informed her that I knew all about what was going on with the best friend's boyfriend and told her I would not be coming to pick her up, not nearly as nicely as I am describing it here.

I had another date lined up for the event who happened to be gorgeous. As my date and I are walking out of my parent's house the ex and her brother pulled up in front of my house. He proceeds to get out of the car and attempt to go after me. I don't think it would have gone this way under normal circumstances, but given how angry I was, I managed to do a number on him. My father had to come out of the house and pull me off of the guy.

She did get some degree of payback although I still think I got her better. She returned all of my belonging by walking onto a softball field during a game while play was going on. The guys really laid into me about that one when the inning was over.

Answer 2

Catch them in the act and dump them right then and there in front of the cheatee and everyone within earshot. If they gave you a ring or anything like that, take it off and throw it in their face. That's the ultimate way to say "I'm not putting up with this sh!t."

Just make absolutely, positively, 100% sure that they're really cheating before you throw away everything and embarrass yourself. It might just be the new neighbor his parents said to show around town, or anything like that. And whatever you do, don't cheat back. Two wrongs don't make a right. It will just make you look just as bad as he is. Stay on the upperhand. Especially if there's at all a possibility that he wasn't cheating, because then he's going to turn around and dump you first for being a cheater.

Answer 3

I wouldn't confront him to try and talk it out. Most cheaters deny cheating even when they've been caught... because unless you tell them specifically what you know, they are going to take their chances.

Get a little revenge to make yourself feel better and then get out of there. There is absolutely no need to stay with someone who is screwing around on you... you'll never trust the person again, no matter what they say or how they seem to have turned around... and your relationship will suffer along with your self-esteem for having stayed.

;-)

Answer 4

Confront and confirm. People always say "I know s/he's cheating on me!" But if you're absolutely sure, then why even ask? Just dump him/her then and get it over with. Unless you're okay with having an open relationship of some sort. Then, there's again no reason to ask, since you put yourself in that situation.

Answer 5

I would just happen to "show up" somewhere that they were that way they can't deny it.

Chances are if you suspect someone is cheating on you then there's some issues that you have with communication. You should be able to talk to the person you are dating about things that bother you. If not, then maybe things happen for a reason and you should find someone you can actually trust your feelings and thoughts with.

If that doesn't work, sleep with their best friend.

= ) Just kidding, don't do that!

Answer 6

I would have sex with her sisters and every one of her female friends. Then, I would let her know. Then, I would dump her.

That's only if I was monogamous with her. Since I almost never do that, I would simply shrug and tell her things are cool as long as she stays clean (no stds allowed). I'd date one of my other girlfriends when she wasn't available. This is implicitly understood by everyone, but it's not really cool to talk about it, so you don't.

Answer 7

Get the evidence, then confront him/her and then dump them. Let them know what it feels like to be betrayed. Find someone new and don't look back.

Answer 8

well the best thing to do is to dump them and go get yourself checked out i mean u do not want to have a disease from them do you? i would think one would want to keep themselves disease free no relationship should kill you thats worth having. so dump them and when they ask why let them know and tell them that u want nothing more to do with them. if they do not want to leave u alone then call the police and file a restraining order.

Answer 9

go to the person in question and ask about it. no sense crying or beating around the bush about it. if that person cares about you then they would fess up and would be willing to make it up to you. if not dump them and find someone new. much luck to you.

Answer 10

play along, all of a sudden act clingy. go where they never expected you to go with them. when they're on the phone kiss his or hers neck,ear, on the mouth. talk to them loud when theyre on the phone.
if they seem suprised your there at that moment then AMBUSH THEM-question them! if you do suspect they are, dont immediately think they will come running picking you over who theyre with. finding out is the hard part if it matters to you the most.