day of week , time of the day they should be home by? when and when not to let them go?
2006-07-07 09:25:07 · 16 answers · asked by sixnineteen@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, first of all it depends on how mature she is. And, what she is doing. Being only 13 I would say 8 or 9 on weekdays when she has school, and not allowed if she has homework. Weekends I would say 10. But always know where she is going. And, make exceptions if she is going to a movie or something let her stay out those few extra minutes. If you are leniant she will be responsible, if sheknows she can call you for an extentstion... then you always know where she is!
2006-07-07 09:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Heather N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was difficult to read, did you intentionally misspell every word you could think to?
A thirteen year old girl should be home by 9pm I'd think, she's just barely a teen. If she shows herself to be quite responsible, perhaps extend that to 10pm on Fri & Sat. Homework would need to be done before going out, and if there's an exam the next day, I'd have her spend the evening home studying unless I knew she was quite familiar with the information.
But that's just me...and I'm not a parent.
2006-07-07 16:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on where she is going? with who?, is there school the next day,? Are there parents present? is she responsible? gets good grades?
Also, is she home on time prior to this, when you have let her go out before?
If she is a good kid theres not really a set curfew as long as you're able to trust her and the people that she will be around at the time. Also, if there is school the next day it shouldn't be past 9pm.
2006-07-07 16:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by kellbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her but better be in the house by 10 no questions and maybe just maybe 12 if it's a special occasion. Period there is way to much B.S. for kids to get into when they should be at the crib eating chicken dinner and cleaning up and doing home work and stuff.
2006-07-07 16:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not clear if you mean 3rd teen girl or thirteen year old girl, but i'm going to opt for thirteen year old girl. you also didn't say whether or not this child is allowed to date at this age (if so...hmmm).
at 13 my daughters barely got to hang out with friends during the weekend and never unsupervised. weeknights, at home after school. on saturdays they were involved with a program and/or with family, including sundays. if you're letting your daughter date (too young in my opinion), it should be one weekend night only, and home by 9pm, 1 hour later if chaperoned by a responsible adult, unless you and the other adult agree to a later time. if its a school night, no dating or hanging out at all. if school is on break and its a weeknight, still no later than 8pm. they can talk on the phone until a reasonable hour too.
i get the feeling that you're getting pressured (if you're the parent). lay down the rules and stand your ground. by all means meet your child's friends (females and males) and their parents. if you can't meet the parents in person, do it by phone. don't be afraid to put your foot down. she might b**** and moan now but hopefully she'll grow to appreciate it later...mine did.
2006-07-07 16:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by loving 40+ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10:30
2006-07-07 16:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by kiya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all a thirteen year old girl shouldnt be out late!! by law there is a curfew, i have a thirteen year old son who during school he is in before dark in bed by 9pm during the weekend in 1 hour after dark in bed anytime, during summer in home by 1 hour after dark i have to know hwere he is at at all times and in bed whatever time, you dont let them go when you dont know where they are going or with who. there are exceptions like if you know that parents will be there who they are but if you have no name and numbers of where they will be they cant go!!
2006-07-07 16:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by jessgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under 18 your parents are the only authority to ask. Even if everyone on here agrees on terms and conditions, they are not in a decision making role where you are concerned. Sorry!
2006-07-07 16:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by davis0375 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 pm at the latest...weekend. 9 pm during the week or school nights. As long as you know where they are going and have a contact number (i.e. cell phone, or other kid's parents number) and have her check in by calling at certain times.
2006-07-07 16:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Lovinlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every teen is different. you just have to do a trial run and see what works for your family. Give her a set curfew if she follows that and earns your respect then you can move the time up. If not then she'll have to earn it back.
2006-07-07 16:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by girlnextdoor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋