But if he didn't know that he was going then would you still be mad at him. Please help me.
2006-07-07 09:15:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, if my boyfriend went out of town and did not have time to tell me ahead of time because it was a sudden trip, and he himself did not know he was going then, I would NOT get angry with him.
It is not his fault the trip was sprung on him right away. Life is too short to be getting angry over irrational things like that. Be an understanding girlfriend to him, or else he'll run the other way!
Food for thought - " If your toast gets burnt, and you get upset, imagine how you'd be if your house burns to the ground? "
2006-07-07 09:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on why they went out of town. If it was an emergency like a family member having a big problem, then I may be a little upset but I would understand because I would probably do the same thing. If going out of town was for fun then I would be plenty mad and we would have to talk about what being a boyfriend means to him. Maybe you two have different ideas about what it means.
2006-07-07 16:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't really say I'd get mad, but if it was for leisure or something like that, probably be disappointed. But sometimes things may happen and he/she might need to go somewhere to make an appearance. (like death of a relative, or someone got in an accident) pretty much reasons that are pretty reasonable lol If your boyfriend or girlfriend just left without telling you where he or she went, Im assuming they're taking time in making up reasons to hide what they really did. Because if you care about your girlfriend or boyfriend enough, they deserve to know where to freakin find your *** when youre gone. It's not fair that they know where you are and you dont know where they *** might be situated. If you wanna confront him, just ask him nicely. If he went out w/ friends to party w/ girls in a yacht, I think something's up!
2006-07-07 16:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by estranged 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the circumstances. If he had to go out of town for a family emergency,no. If he went out of town for spring break,yes
2006-07-07 16:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knew and didn't tell you thats very inconsiderate... makes ya wonder if something is going on.
If he didn't know and it's a spur of the moment thing thats different.
2006-07-07 16:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would be upset. But if they didn't know they were going to leave ( like for a family emergency) then it's different.
2006-07-07 16:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... if they just left without telling me... damn skippy I'd be pissed...
BUT if he didn't know that he had to leave and it was a last second thing, then I'd get mad, and then get over it.
2006-07-07 16:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by rocknrobin21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i went out of town one weekend and when i got back i found out a week later that my bf did too, was i madD YES only cuz he didn't tell me, so if he tells u, it's all good
2006-07-07 16:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by jenni baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, as a matter of fact, I've gotten incredibly mad because of that.
2006-07-07 16:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yea your suppose to share with each other have conversations.
Try and get into eachother's mind.
2006-07-07 16:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by deandre w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋