last week my boyfriends brother told me that he thinks hes falling in love with me, cant stop thinking about me, i didnt know what to say, i was speachless, he left and havent seem him since, hes usually up every day. Im with boyfriend 12 years and he has a girlfriend and 3 kids. I kinda have a thing for him too but i would never cheat, especially with his brother! i dont want to lose him as a friend, how will i handle this? can anyone give some advice
2006-07-07 09:15:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to set him straight. How unkewl to say that to you, and both of you involved with other people (and his own brother's girlfriend besides!).
Let him know you appreciate his feelings, but you are involved with his brother and intend for that to continue....and he needs to concentrate on his own relationship.
Nothing good can come of persuing this!
2006-07-07 09:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let him know that you are faltered (if you are) but I wouldn't throw away what you do have for something that may never work, especially for your boyfriends brother. Be honest is all I can say. Not only that but if he's coming on to you, and he's married with kids, what makes you think that while with you (if you two were an "item) that he wouldn't come onto another girl?
2006-07-07 09:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man with a girlfriend and 3 kids tells you he likes you. And YOU, for some unknown reason, find this flattering?!?!?
HOW??
The guy is a jerk. You want a jerk with 3 kids coming on to you? Are you desperate too!
Handle it by not being so impressed by this. The guy's a LOSER.
The 3 kids would be such a turn-off for me. I set my standards a little higher then yours, I guess.
With me, what's not to like!?!?! I take it for GRANTED that men are attracted to me. But to get impressed by it to the point where I'm in a dilemma about it . . . no way! As I said, I set MY STANDARDS higher then yours. When you set your standards low, guess what . . . you start bottom-feeding!
2006-07-07 09:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by i_troll_therefore_i_am 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your life be a Jerry Springer show. Have some class. He has a girlfriend and three kids and you have been with boyfriend for 12 years.If you break up with boyfriend to be with brother and he leave his girlfriend, remember he still has three kids and maybe a crazy ex to ruin your life.Get your priorities straight please! Also consider this, maybe youre not happy with boyfriend.
2006-07-07 09:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by curly98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him thanks for the compliment, but I am not available.
2006-07-07 09:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyed_soul_woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋