Is it possible?

Question

Ok is it possible to have a type of person you want even if you havent dated much? my friends tell me u cant have a type, but i seem to have one!

Answer 1

Sure, you can have a type, even without having dating experience. You know what kind of personality traits you want your partner to have, the kind of morals and character you are looking for, and probably some physical characteristics you hope for.

My advice would be to be very choosy about the personality and moral characteristics you are looking for, and very open about the physical characteristics. Some great (kind, funny, smart, etc.) people come in some very imperfect bodies. Don't let something like height (or lack of it), skin condition, ears that stick out, missing limbs, etc. keep you from learning to love a great person!! And don't let their lack of money keep you from finding joy with them. If they have intelligence and at least moderate ambition, money can be earned and saved.

Answer 2

That's pretty much what you would be looking for...your type...everyone imagines what they look like, how they are going to act like and how they will perform like..the smart person will do their homework and figure out where someone like that would be found and then check those areas out to see who fits your description..and once that's narrowed down...get to know them and wha-la...he's the type.

Answer 3

For immature individuals it is possible to decide on a "type" of person they want. However, this is limiting and rather shallow. There are so many individuals out there that I could never say just one "type" is my type. I do not EVER place physical appearance before what the soul is like in a person. To know what a soul is like you have to take the time to get to know a person and it has nothing to do with looks at all. I am attracted to physical appearance, but if the person I am physically attracted to has nothing much in the way of his soul, then I quickly find him unattractive. He could be the most handsome of beautiful man around and I would find him unattractive if I discovered he had an unattractive soul. For example, I like tall, dark, blue eyed men with wide shoulders, strong jaws, and a body with great physical porpotions. However, if I was dating a man just like this and found he was mean to kids I would quickly find him about as ugle as a toad. I would no longer find him at all attractive.

Now, I have been married twice, and am getting ready to marry for the third time. My first husband was twenty years older than I, was only five foot seven and weighed 145 pounds. I am five foot eight and a quarter, and usually weight around 165 pounds. My first husband started out as friends and then I saw his soul and I fell in love with him. We had three children together, a lovely marriage that was fullfilling and a great friendship, a very deep bond. He died eleven years ago, due to lung cancer. He was fifty three and I was thirty two. A year later I met a man who was six feet tall, blond, blue eyes, large shoulders, nice guy in many ways. However, when he began doing drugs he quickly became unattractive to me. I tried getting him help but it was not working so I divorced him. I then stayed single for the next four years, untill I met my fiance who is five six and 140 pounds but has a soul that glows like an angel. This man is the love of my lfie and he is two and one quarter inches shorter than I and twenty five pounds lighter, but stonger than any many I have ever met. Amazingly strong. He can pick me up and carry me around. He is a master technition. He is blond blue eyed. Far from the "type" I told you I am most physically attracted to. Our love life is spectacular. We are two peas in a pod and happy as can be. We just want to curl up next to each other and crawl into each others bodies. He smells like a dream and is the sweetest man you could ever meet, yet backs down from nobody if he feels he is in the right. A solid good man.

If I had just stuck with my "type" I would never have has the honor or bliss of being with this man, or with my first husband. I am even happier with this man than my first husband, but I think that is just due to my being a grown woman now with a solid understanding of who I am and what I believe in. As you grow you will come into your own as a woman and have the confidence and poise of a lady if you choose those morals and stick with them. Good men like ladies, not tramps or women of loose morals or low charactor.

Listen, don't limit yourself to some "type". That is a rather childish and immature thing to do as well as very limiting. You may miss your soul mate it you do so. A soul mate is not limited to just one man or person in a lifetime. I have had the privlege of having two in my life and I am so gratefull for it. Life is much richer with somebody to share it with, but don't be with a man if you think he will make you "whole" or "complete you". You have to be complete on your own. Then when you both are you compliment each others lives and are companions, lovers, and friends. Soulmates. Blessed Be.

Answer 4

Everybody has a type, even the friend who say they don't. They are human, aren't they?

Answer 5

My sister has a type thats why she is single.

Answer 6

no idea...