Guys are staring at me! but they are way older than me! im scared! they're are huge and im tiny, and when i sit they sit when i go in a pool they go in! my bf is getting mad at me bc of them! i told them to back off so they back off for a day and they come back to it the next day! i dont want my bf to break up with me bc of them!! what do i do?
2006-07-07 09:04:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hey i give a challenge one day, just go out around them and just dress sloppy, wear something very ugly and dont do your hair, and wear the same shirt twice, make sure you wash it though, just do something weird that would make them not wanna talk to you
2006-07-07 09:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by ladycrunkjuice 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are a very attractive woman.
And most women welcome an occasional glance from men...it validates that she is a looker.
But it is rude to stare or ogle.
These guys sound like a bunch of old f*rts with no real sex life.
The problem is, there is no law against staring, if you are in a public place.
As for your boyfriend, he needs to grow up and deal with the fact that you are attractive.
If you are true to him and you don't go out of your way to flirt with other guys, then the problem is his, NOT yours.
You & bf can look for another pool, you can try changing to a modest bathing suit or try picking your nose when the old geezers stare.
2006-07-07 16:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?? And what do you consider way older?? And what are you doing, saying or wearing to make them stare at you?? You've gotta be doing something or have done something if it's that bad. It also sounds like it's the same guys over and over. If that's the case, tell them to bug off or you'll call the cops. If they don't, then remember stalking is a crime in all 50 states.
2006-07-07 16:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by rocknrobin21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how your boyfriend feels! look at it like this, your obviously good looking so tell him that having a good looking girlfriend has its down falls! like fighting jerks off of you and dealing with guys with wondering eyes. theres really no possible way to keep guys away from you unless you create a bad rep for yourself and you really wouldn't want to do that. just try to explain to your boyfriend what the deal is first and dont tell him everything about how guys are constantly looking at you and trying to talk to you, that only causes the spouse to get mad and insecure and untrustworthy and it WILL ruin the relationship.
and all you can do a about the guys is keep tellin them to back off.
2006-07-07 16:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by mepc4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you should look at yourself and try to figure out why this is happening, your clothes, swimsuit, attitude etc., sometimes we flirt without realizing we are doing it.They may also be trying to get a rise out of your bf. After you have done all the above, let the lifeguard know what is happening.
2006-07-07 16:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is so many thing about this that mack me mad. one is you not a piece of meat. and two well just the way guy look at girls today. there more to a girl then just look. there smarts and and her personality and there a big list. but like think if your boy friend cant cant stand up for you well you both need to work on that. but if he don't just call the cop. they need to be stop. so hope i was helpful.
2006-07-07 16:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Chris Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are these guys that you always have some sort of entourage following you around? You must know them if you see them that often, or you just didn't explain yourself very well here. Either way, ignore them. If it continues, maybe your boyfriend should be a man and take you out somewhere away from them. If you ignore their comments or their actions and you hang on tight to your boyfriend, he should have enough confidence in himself to see that you only have eyes for him.
2006-07-07 16:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men stare at everyone lol..if your that pretty that they follow you when you leave the house or go to the pool only go with your man or dont go at all
2006-07-07 16:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf you love him and u would never cheat. Tell him he should be lucky since he got something that everyone wants but he is the only one that can have it :)
2006-07-07 16:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by gabygaby_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I don't understand...are these the same guys...if they are same guys...where do they usually stare at you...is it the same location....
its kinda hard to help you...unless we know the real situation
2006-07-07 16:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋