Do you think its a good idea for me to go for lunch with my ex girlfrend? and should i tell my girlfrend about it?
2006-07-07 08:53:59 · 55 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hmmm... you want to don't you...your just seeking permission from strangers...hey i know your game...hee hee... well in all seriousness... if you want to then i think it means ( deep down) you still have some feeling for ex girlf. If that is the case things might get out of hand and end up in the cheeting department ( her panties!)
Or maybe you want to go because you know or hope she still has feeling for you and you have none for her, but it is always nice to be liked ain't it??? What would you think if your girlf said she was going out for lunch with her ex??...you'd prob think she had feelings for him. What would you think if your girlf went out with her ex and hadn't told you ??? ...SOMETHING IS GOING ON BETWEEEN THEM !!! and if she denyed it and said " i swear it was only lunch it meant nothing" you 'd say " well if it was nothing...why didn't you tell me about it"
So to sum up... if you're going to go, really question why your going... for an ego boost, sex with the ex, a flirt, catch up... then is it worth it??? and really you should tell girlfriend.. ok good luck let us all know what you decide!!
PS Fancy lunch on Sunday?? hee hee
2006-07-07 09:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes - tell your girlfriend that your ex wants to go to lunch with you. If she's comfortable with it, then go ahead - but make sure that it's you, the ex, and some other friend too. This way it's not date-like and there won't be any awkward issues. If your girlfriend doesn't want you to go, then don't. Afterall, isn't keeping what you have with her right now more important than a trip down memory lane with someone you don't have feelings for anymore?
But no matter what - TELL your girlfriend about the situation. Even if you don't go - she'll see that you're an honest guy to keep her in the loop on what's going on with people in your life. At this point, the only wrong thing you've done is keep it from her. Tell her so that you can have a clean slate. It'll be worse if you go and she finds out. And she will find out.
2006-07-07 09:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go, definately tell your girlfriend about it. I found someone new and went out for lunch with my ex and all it did was cause a lot of confusion at first, by bringing up old feelings. Make sure you've given it some time before you try to pull the whole friend bit.
2006-07-07 08:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it depends, are u serious in this relationship u are in?
is your girlfriend the jealous type and what would she think?
would u be upset by her going to lunch with an ex of hers?
Me honestly, I think its a bad idea, she is ur ex so u should be done, however if there are children involved I dont know. Do u want her back, is there a reason for the lunch?
whats wrong with ur ex going with u? and yes, if u are with her and going with ur ex to lunch u should let ur girlfriend know.
2006-07-07 09:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it would be a good idea. In most cases, only bad feelings and uncertainty come from trying to be friends with an old flame. I defintely don't think it would be a great idea to keep it from your g/f. I suppose that it depends on your personal situation... how serious you are about your new relationship...how close your ex and you were. My advice would be, it would be best to move on with your new girlfriend and not worry too much about the old one. Out with the old, in with the new!
2006-07-07 09:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to go for lunch with your ex then you must have feeling for her still? I suggest to go and enjoy yourself but don't tell your girlfriend. You may find that you want your ex back, if so then go for it but be fair on your new girlfriend and let her go before you get into a relationship again with your ex. What harm can lunch do?? Just as long as you don't do it frequently!!!!!
2006-07-07 08:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no what the hell are you thinking. Unless you tell your now girlfriend and she goes along with you on this lunch if your now girlfriend is important to you, you won't have a problem and if not than break up with her but why would you even consider going on a lunch date with an ex when your with someone else? I know I would flip to even think my man would go with an ex if he ever did he'd have no balls.
2006-07-07 09:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell your girlfriend about it, if she approves then go ahead. Invite her to tag a long as well. But if she says no ask her why not just so you can understand where she is coming from. And if no, don't go to lunch with your ex. You don't want to hurt your new sweetie for an old sweetie.
2006-07-07 08:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by sweetsugakb24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should ask ur new girlfriend let her decide.. if she goes with u the ex will see that u are not going to be back and show the new girl that u mean business.. which is good for u makes way for i trust u sex
2006-07-07 08:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by bonesofthedead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,if you have to ask,then,you apparently know the answer. Why would you want to go out with your ex,I assume she's your ex for a reason. Drop the ex,and take the new gf out to lunch instead
2006-07-07 08:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋