like she is trying to ignore me or some crap like that. and i think she gets my emails and reads them but she just throws them away and doesnt reply. do you think that this is the end of this friendship??
2006-07-07 08:53:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Listen, if this is really as good a friendship as you say you would not be so quick to take offense. Your friend may be going through some difficult time which is taking all her emotional powers and streangths to cope with right now. There could be a millions reasons why she is not responding right now. My own sister is just not good at e-mails or letters. She is very busy but I know she loves me. I have friends who I do not have contact with for sometimes years, but when we get together even just to talk on the phone it is like there has not been any seperation at all. I do not get all bent out of shape if one does not repond for awhile. Sometimes life just catches you up and things and, yes, even friends, get put on the back burner for a while.
If you and she really are as good of friends as you claim, then no matter how much time goes by without a connection, when you do connect it is as close as it ever was. It just gives the both of you a lot to talk about and catch up about. It can get boring when friends are constantly under foot, as after a while there is only so much conversation you can have without beginning to repeat it all. I would rather see my friends a bit less and have more to say, keep things fresh, rather than get bored with the conversation or activities. Sometimes if a friend gets caught up in a new love life just gets so full there is not room for anyone else for a while, at least until the first flush of love is gone and things settle down a bit. I don't resent my friends when this happens, I am just happy for them. They also are busy with lives of their own, husbands, wifes (I have male friends) children, jobs, etc, catches us up and we get busy. So, try to not panic and think she does not like you any more or is rejecting you. She is very well just caught up in her life at the moment. Give her space and time, keep sending the e-mails and she will eventually respond. If she doesn't within six months to a year then hang up the friendship. It sounds like you are one of those high maintanance friends who needs a lot of attention or you freak out thinking they don't like you after all. Just calm down and give people room to breath. You will be much happier for it. Friends don't have to be up each others butts in order to be friends. Blessed Be.
2006-07-07 09:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Serenity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey the same thing is happening with me now only all her phones are disconnected and like the only possible way to commuincate with her is through my bf's brother (who is my age and one of our best friends) and he tells her stuff but she dont answer back. It is hard for me too. No i dont think it is the end of your friendship cuz she wouldnt run she would straight up tell you. you need to ask her but i just think she is mad at you. and that is what i think my friend is with me.
2006-07-07 08:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill be praying for you. it will work out for the best.
2006-07-07 08:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by Chris Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋