Like in a situation where people constantly pick on you or call you fat or you so skinny or you mad ugly. Why is it not good to care what people think. Cause I dont wanna do nothing stupid based on some else's opinion about me.
2006-07-07 08:51:32 · 11 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Never let another person place a value on your life.
YOU are perfect just the way you are!!!!!! If people say mean things to you, they are the one with the esteem issues.
Try to cut them out of your life if you can. No one has a right to make you feel bad about yourself----even a family member, although they are the hardest to avoid.
God don't make junk.....you are perfect just the way you are.
2006-07-15 18:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the saying should be changed a bit, because on an emotional level, all of us care to a degree what people think or say - especially if they pick up on a feature or trait that we are not comfortable.
The saying really should say "Despite what someone says, I have excellent qualities. I know I have them, and the people who care know I have them - and that is really all that matters".
That does not mean that you should allow people to be rude, especially if you are able to get help in stiopping them - school teacher, office supervisor, or even the police if it is harrasment.
2006-07-07 09:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you constantly worry about what others think of you, you will have to live in a shell for the rest of your life. no matter what decisions you make in life there will always be a person who disagrees or criticize. make yourself happy and bump others. people will talk about you for the rest of your life no matter what you have or don't have or what you look like.
2006-07-07 08:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Right 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK WHEN YOU START CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK YOU SLOWLY FORGET WHAT YOU STAND FOR AND WHO YOU ARE. THAT WOULD MAKE YOU A POSER. WHATEVER YOU LOOK LIKE YOU NEED TO DECIDE IF THAT'S OK FOR YOU OR NOT IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF THEN F*CK WHAT EVERYONE ELSE THINKS. IF THERE IS SOMETHING ABOUT YOU THAT YOU DON'T LIKE AND KNOW YOU CAN CHANGE IT TO LOVE YOURSELF BETTER THEN BY ALL MEANS DO IT. BUT DO IT FOR YOU. TO MAKE YOU CONFIDENT IN WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN.
2006-07-16 17:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by b_rachelk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a waste of time to try to please people who don't like you and you have no emotional attachment to, when your life could be focused upon making yourself and the people you care about happy.
2006-07-07 08:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by jaydee78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are just jealous of you and they tryin to make themselves seem like they are better than you when they are not. and I dont care if this person looked like Beyonce and you looked like Whoopi, the only kinds of people that do that is the one's that are jealous of u in someway or another so if they say you fat , jus say no b**** curvy and I know you see my ti** sitting pretty, dont hate bi***!!
2006-07-18 08:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by N2Know 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you start caring what others think, you carry burdens you don't need to carry., Be the best person you can be and to hell with what others think.
2006-07-07 08:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by ROBIN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they might think that u are ugly,fat,so there for u shold not care what they think if they say mean things about you....or get even and call them a f****** b****,and tell her lick a**
2006-07-21 06:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
People suck. You have all the answers you need just listen to yourself.
2006-07-07 08:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because then you are living your life for them and not for yourself. they don't know everything about you and are very likely to be wrong.
2006-07-07 08:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋