I am 14 going on 15 years old and I am 5 1/2 mths pregnant and my boyfriend is 16 years old, and he likes to beat on me. I tried to tell him that I didnt want to go with him anymore but all he did was get mad and beat on me more.He makes me do what he want and when I dont want to have sex with him he make me and when I tell him that im uncomfortable I dont stop I told him that he could hurt the baby if he keep doing that but I dont think that he care.I cant talk to my friends at school and if he see me talking to a boy he would start beating on me hitting me in my stomach. I dont know what to do nomore I want to leave him but im scared to.
2006-07-07 08:12:51 · 33 answers · asked by keyshia 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I didnt see my parents since I got pregnant I didnt want them to find out that my boyfriend beat on me and that I was pregnant, I told them that I was moving in with my boyfriend.
2006-07-07 08:22:13 · update #1
But he only act like this when I get pregnant because he was acting like this when I got pregnant before this but he doesnt hit my baby he loves her to death she is 1 1/2 years old
2006-07-07 08:45:50 · update #2
OMG would you leave the man. The next time he beats you file for police charges and get a restraining order. You dont need this ****. He will kill you eventually. File for custody and support when you have the child.
http://darkwing.uoregon.edu/~counsel/abuse.htm
2006-07-07 08:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Genivieve G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have parents to talk to you and to guide you in a more positive direction in life? I hope so, but if not you need to find a positive outlet or go seek help from professionals.
This guys sounds like a real prick and it's a shame he's bringing a baby into this world.
You're not going to raise this child are you? best thing would be to give it up for adoption, leave the loser you're with and try to start a better life for yourself girl. don't just be another statistic.
2006-07-07 08:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should have known better to not have sex at your age but too late to say that now isnt it? This guy is obv. worthless and you need to get rid of him asap no matter what.. him being the father of your baby means nothing now and days. talk to your parents and have them talk to your school that way he wont dare lay a finger on you to harm that child when they are not around. If you dont put your foot down now he will only continue to treat u like ****. And if that doesnt work go to the police they'll take care of it. Goodluck
2006-07-07 08:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by xtropicaldreamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still at home with your parents? Does your parents know what going on within the relationship? Can you talk to your school counselor? Are you going to your physician to check on the baby to make sure that everything is OK. If you need to go to the police!!! You need to get this male out of your life before something terrible happens to you. God forbid, but you are in a bad situation and you have to get out of it ASAP!!!!! Why can't you talk to your friends? You will see as you get older who your real friends are. I wish you the best of luck and i hope that you and the baby are OK.
2006-07-07 08:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by shorty62199 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get help. Try telling your parents and see what they can do about it. If they can't help, talk to a teacher you trust or your school guidance counsellor or principal. If you don't feel comfortable talking to any of those people, or you feel like they are not helping you, you can also call the national domestic violence hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) for help. They have a website at http://www.ndvh.org/. Do whatever it takes to get away from this guy. It will be worth it.
2006-07-07 08:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by Cara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek the advice & help of your parents, a teacher, or another trusted adult. I'm afraid you're not going to find any quick, easy answers here. Your "boyfriend" is abusing you and your unborn baby. The physical abuse could easily kill you and/or the baby. Get help now, before it's too late. Regardless of what you may think, YOU are still a child yourself....there IS help out there for you.
2006-07-07 08:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by manatee lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait in a car till you see him walking down the street. Do not let your emotions get the best of you and back down, this has to be down as soon as possible. While he is walking run him over at a low speed, hitting him at a high speed will kill him. By doing this he will still be around, but he will be a cripple. Know he can't hurt you anymore. Killing him means jail time, making him a cripple, oops i'm sorry i didn't see you.
2006-07-07 16:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Bayou Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is for real and not just someone making stupid jokes then you need to go see your parents. They should know whats going on, they can and will help you. You need to get away from this boy, where the hell are his parents??? Just get yourself some adult help, you may not think so but you are just a kid and you really don't have the ability to handle this.
2006-07-07 08:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by cwoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all seriousness you should talk to the police and your parents. No one deserves to be treated like that and you really need to think of the little baby growing inside you. If you stay in your situation there is a good chance your baby could come out deformed and you will have to care for it your entire life. So Please talk to someone who can help you. Good luck!!
2006-07-07 08:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sippy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where the hell are your parents? What kind of nonsense is this? You call the cops and end this before he kills you or the baby. Parents don't care? Then tell an adult at school. Tell your Doctor. Tell your minister. Protect yourself and your child.
2006-07-07 08:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋