my mom just died i'm thinking of killing myself what do i do?

Question

i miss her so much we were so close i need help i'm going crazy

Answer 1

my heart goes out to you. my mom died recently too. it sucks i know. its a natural part of life. we all live than die. its actually cool cause shes with the one who created her and god knows ALL of your hurt and has your back. will you see your mom again? of course you will:o) meanwhile there is a reason god created you and it wasnt so you can kill yourself. you have a purpose on this planet, a reason your here. its not an accident and its not about you or me. its whatever god created you for. if your not sure what your purpose is than pray for guidance. YOU ARE LOVED!!

Answer 2

Forget the whole Jesus thing. You need a real human being to look you in the face and listen to the feelings you're going through. Grief can manifest in a number of ways and you should not feel embarrassed or ashamed of your reaction, but you also must not act on it nor should you delay in talking to someone. A therapist may be the right choice, but so may a close friend or a family member. If you have a brother or a sister, that would be a great choice as they would be able to identify with the way you feel.

Best of luck. Just don't do anything that can't reversed. Time makes loss easier, and what's important is finding help.

Answer 3

I have went through stages in life where I question if I want to live any longer. I have become very close to convicing myself I should because I thought that I would never be happy again & dying was the only way out. But I didn't. And now, several years later, I am so in love with life. I thank God everyday for not letting me do that to myself. I look back & see all the things I would have missed and all the people I would have hurt by my selfishness. Your mother is looking down on you. She still loves you, and you can still talk to her. She may come to in dreams, in thoughts, but she will still be there with every step you take. I think deep down you know that killing yourself is not the way out, because you coming to us for advice. Also, your mother would not have wanted you to leave this world. So stay alive for her wishes. If you feel that you might hurt yourself, get help immediately. Call this number and talk with someone when you are feeling lonely & desperate : 1-800-273-TALK (8255) I wish you the best and I hope you listen to us. When it's your time to leave Earth, God will take you. And you can spend the rest of eternity in Heaven with your mother.

Answer 4

Killing yourself isn't a solution for anything and I'm relatively sure that's not what your mother would want you to do. Sure, you're going to miss her - that is never going to go away. You have to take time to grieve because that is okay and normal, and then remember her in ways that make you smile. I hope you are of the upbringing that gives you the understanding that you and she will be together again someday. I know in my own heart that you will. Hang on to that hope. If you have someone close to you, your dad, grandparents, brother, sister, etc., that you can sit down with and open your heart about your mother, I think you'll find that it will help. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 5

my dear,

I can only begin to understand what you are going through. i feel 4 u. loosing someone you love and care about is got to be one of the greatest pains you can possibly feel. Nevertheless, life, for you, continues. It won't be easy. It will take time. Maybe lots of time; but, you will get over it. You need time to mourn and heal and accept things as they are now. Things will never be the same but you will evolve into a stronger more mature individual. Try focusing on those that are still around you. Talk to friends, talk to family, talk to a priest, get help. You are not alone in this, though, there are millions of people who have lost loved ones; believe me, they all recovered one way or another. Plus, you are probably not the only one in your family that is experiencing this much pain; don't give them more to mourn on; mourn with them instead.
If you feel like doing something, do nothing, sit down, relax and wait for the next day to come; talk to someone if you could. The sun always comes up next day. Take it a day a time.

Answer 6

I can understand where you are coming from, I was where you are not so long ago. Your mother loved you and would want you to keep on living and live it to the fullest. her spirit will always be around you and you will always have her in your heart. It is very difficult to come to terms with a loss of a loved one especially a mother when you were so close. just seek out help there are support groups, family, friends, your minister at your church. you need to surround yourself with people who know you and love you. you need to talk about her and let it all out..cry yourself silly.each day will get a little easier but, expect to have moments when something reminds you of her, or go somewhere you two used to go that a wave of sadness will wash over you. it has been 6 months and that is still happening to me. hang in there.. if you need someone to talk to feel free to write at [e-mail]

God Bless and you will be in my thoughts and prayers. may the memories of her help you through this time of sorrow. Take Care!!

Answer 7

Oh Hun, Im so sorry! I dont know what I would do if my momma ever died! Well first of all, I think you need to consider a local church, a place that will support you, and help you get through this! Jesus loves you, and he didnt make your mom die, but he did allow it! There is a reason for everything. I hope this helped you, but listen to me, killing your self is NOT the solution! Please! It hurts the people around you and its very selfish (i know this, bec a few of my friends did it!) Plus, I dont think you want to spend eternity in hell, if you kill your self that is where you will be!
Well I hope everything works out! I will be praying for you, hang in there! God bless!!

Answer 8

You need medication. The feelings you are having are not unusual. Separation anxiety is and can be very serious. You should go to your doctor and explain to him your feelings of deep depression. He will prescribe medication that should give you the help you need. Forget about suicide, your mom wouldn't want you to do that. Things will get better and you should do all the things that would have made your mother proud. Good Luck !

Answer 9

Every one has to go, sooner or later. Let me put it this way, what if your mom will get hurt with this thinking? What if she wants you to live your life happily. Which parent dont want to see their kids happy and she is one of them. Just keep yourself busy, get mingled well with your friends, ask for their help to cope up with the issue. Consult a psychiatrist if u want, saying prayers is the best medicine.

Islam has a very good explaination if you come across such issues. You can read about it if you want.

Answer 10

Hey i am throughly sorry i can imagine what you're going through.I would b the same way but u need 2 hang in there,have faith & pray and ask the lord to help u in ur times of trouble.Trust me u will get through this just don't do anything stupid...okay.if u need 2 talk 2 someone u can email me at [e-mail]

Answer 11

I am sure it is the hardest thing that you have had to go through, and each day it will get easier. I am sure that your mom would not want you to give up on your life. Talk to people you care about and that cares about you.
If you need someone to talk to e-mail me.
my mom went through this with her fathers death.
I don;t know if i could help but i will try.